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What's the deal with male loneliness?
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this post was submitted on 04 Jan 2025
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This is part of man culture that we men need to change one step at a time. Instead we bully each other over it.
No we don't. That's a feminist lie. The women whose political power depends on maintaining a perpetual state of victimhood by blaming every single thing on men would have you believe that.
Men will have conversations like this:
"Tiffany left me."
...
"Really?"
...
swig of beer
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"Yeah. Said I'm not 'available enough.'"
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swig of beer
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"Shit dude."
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"Yeah."
Enough information is shared for one man to put himself in the other's shoes, think about what he went through, and arrive at the same place for himself. That need women have to put their feelings into words to yap at each other is just a symptom of their abject inability to empathize with their fellow sentient beings.
You know what doesn't occur to men to share with other men? "Breaking news, this just in from our correspondants in the field: Nothing continues to happen." In fact I'm going to go post that to the Dull Men's Club community and see what comments that attracts.
No, the people who will destroy you for being anything other than fine are the women in your life. Your mother, your sisters, your daughters, whatever name your sexual partner(s) insist on being called. They're the ones who will kick you the hardest when you're down. You will never be more alone than when you're surrounded by women.
You've never heard men say "dude, just suck it up and get over it already. Don't be a wuss." about similar issues to other men?
About relationship stuff I can honestly say that I haven't ever seen that. Other than like "hey I know you're hurting but why don't you come out with us and we'll try to help you get back on the horse". Which I think is pretty positive.