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[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 13 points 2 months ago

I'm not sure it's ever too late to learn anything. Unless you are dead.

But I do wish I'd been able to feel ok about my body as a teenager, the anorexia was harmful to my bones & heart, so I guess technically I learned too late to value my body, or learned it too late to avoid damage anyway, though I'm pretty healthy overall now. I think almost all teenagers are uncomfortable with their looks in some way, at least they were back then.

[-] weeeeum@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

I have elderly family that seem miserable because they never bother to learn or achieve anything since they are "too old" for it to matter.

They assume retirement is just lounging around all day until you die. They don't pursue hobbies, read books and are not very active since it "doesn't matter" .

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[-] BenVimes@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 months ago

That I will never enjoy the taste of wine.

I figured out I would never like coffee in my teens, and had the same realization about beer in my 20s.

But it wasn't until this year, in my mid-thirties, that I finally accepted that I don't like the taste of wine and probably never will. After years of trying the full spectrum of wines, I had to admit that it wasn't the "notes" that were turning me off, nor was it a problem with the quality of the wine. It was the fundamental "wine-ness" that I disliked, the same as I don't like the "beer-ness" of beer or the "coffee-ness" of coffee.

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[-] mindaika@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 2 months ago

Dynamic programming. I should have just chased a check rather than trying to save the world

[-] accarezzu@lemmy.ml 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

That you don't put soap in the bootyhole

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[-] HurlingDurling@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago

How to properly manage a budget and how do credit cards work

[-] Fuad@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 months ago

I don’t feel too late to learn anything so far.

[-] kang@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 months ago

No matter how hard you try, how loud you cry, some people will never change.

[-] evlogii@lemm.ee 10 points 2 months ago

Not all rich people are smart, and not all smart people are rich. Seems kind of obvious to me now, but it took me a long time to comprehend this.

[-] CrimeDad@lemmy.crimedad.work 10 points 2 months ago
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[-] Nytixus@kbin.melroy.org 10 points 2 months ago

Grace Periods.

I'm glad I know them now, because for the longest time, I thought I was in a fucked situation whenever my finances were tight. Like if I was due a bill and my pay cannot cover it because of the dates being different. It used to make think that I had to take a hit and just roll with it. But no, some of my bills allow me a brief grace period where I can gather resources in time. Sometimes I'll even stretch my money beyond some grace periods if it means that I can upkeep some resources then just pay the difference later.

[-] That_Devil_Girl@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 month ago

That property has more rights and protections than people do.

The value of human life, in reality, is much lower than I thought it would be.

Laws and rights are only as good as the people & mechanisms that enforce them. A piece of paper doesn't protect you, people do.

That people often prefer a comforting delusion over the truth, even if it hurts them in the long run.

[-] Jarix@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

That in spite of doing my best to care for their mother as she slipped into the madness of depression and alzheimers before dieing last year, that they care about my sacrifice because no one other than me or my brother cared enough about her to help with her care(we did the best we could I know it wasnt enough but at least we were there for her)

But they get to keep her money after kicking us out of the house and selling everything she had so thats cool right?

[-] TotalFat@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

Don't buy the cow if you're lactose intolerant.

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[-] apotheotic@beehaw.org 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

That I am a girl

[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 7 points 2 months ago

How to make latte art. First success today at the age of forty!

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