I still feel like you're missing the point. You must be useful in order to survive. Stripping away all human culture, in the wild, an animal that isn't useful to itself or the group it belongs to is... food for other individuals and groups. Without utility (the ability to hunt/gather, use violence to protect itself, the group, or territory) an organism is... fertilizer. Even plants have utility -- convert CO2 to Oxygen & water & fibrous material, procreate, provide habitat or food to other organisms (as a procreation method) -- and there's no patriarchy telling them to be productive or useful.

I'm not sure what sort of utopia you're arguing in favour of, but I choose to be useful to improve my life for myself, my friends, and society at large. I choose to not be a burden to others wherever possible. I'm happy to pay my taxes and receive benefits in return that improve my life in return -- clean water, roads, free education, social programs and healthcare, etc. I'm also happy that my taxes help provide these things who can't immediately contribute to pay for these things -- because having basic needs met serves as a foundation for society to grow and build upon.