Via the Lemmy Explorer on lemmyverse.net, I found !chat@lemmynsfw.com but I do not know how much that is what you are looking for (I mean, it is not 1-on-1 and there are other people there than straight men as well).
However, feel free to send me a direct message if you want to chat with me.
I see a .jpg file. So, no.
For clarity: your instance still shows the downvotes but LemmyNSFW does not. I did not realise well enough you are not on the same instance so I initially was "alarmed" that you were seeing something you should not see (had you been on the same instance as the community is hosted by). It makes more sense now. And I am glad you are understanding towards the admins' decision (on LemmyNSFW).
They might be coming from other Lemmy instances because on here downvotes are disabled. The instances should be rejecting the external downvotes though, idk what might have happened (I only see the post now, it has 0 dv).
Hi fellow banana man!
Great tits girl.
Thanks for sharing this photo and thanks for the link to those others as well.
Beautiful tits, as usual.
Thanks for answering on my behalf. 👍
(not meant sarcastically or anything)
Thank you very much.
I only have one (1) "smut" account and it is this one. Keeping it separated from my other (Fediverse) accounts is paramount given the problematic consequences a lack of separation could bring.