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Mike Dulak grew up Catholic in Southern California, but by his teen years, he began skipping Mass and driving straight to the shore to play guitar, watch the waves and enjoy the beauty of the morning. “And it felt more spiritual than any time I set foot in a church,” he recalled.

Nothing has changed that view in the ensuing decades.

“Most religions are there to control people and get money from them,” said Dulak, now 76, of Rocheport, Missouri. He also cited sex abuse scandals in Catholic and Southern Baptist churches. “I can’t buy into that,” he said.

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[-] thelastknowngod@lemm.ee 72 points 1 year ago

I used to have that really common thought of "I don't care what you believe in. Just don't try to push your opinion on me."

No. It's bullshit.

The very existence of religion is a psychological drain on society. We are all worse off the longer it stays around. There is no such thing as a good religious person and anyone who says they are religious I immediately distrust.

[-] applebusch@lemmy.world 32 points 1 year ago

Yeah. It's at the root of a lot of the problems with conservatives in the US. Religion trains people in believing because they were told to believe, and holding to these beliefs in the face of all suffering and hardship. It's a gateway drug to conspiracy theories and paranoid delusions.

[-] Honytawk@lemmy.zip 12 points 1 year ago

Gateway drug to conspiracy theories?

Religion IS a conspiracy theory

[-] Chunk@lemmy.world 28 points 1 year ago

I don't immediately distrust religious people but I do kind of roll my eyes and smirk a little bit on the inside.

[-] Octavio@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

If I'm lucky I can manage to keep the eyeroll and smirk on the inside. I'm kind of inelegant with social graces though.

[-] Enkrod@feddit.de 27 points 1 year ago

There is no such thing as a good religious person

That's a bridge too far for me.

Yes, faith is in and off itself detrimental to our society. Religiosity is a strong detrimental force, a mind-virus, a meme that damages the ability to clearly perceive reality.

But just like people who are infected with an infectious virus aren't bad, not all religious people are automatically bad people. I don't think they are good because they are religious, but that doesn't mean they are not good or not religious. So let us not fall into the same absolutist thoughts as the fervent deniers of secular goodness.

[-] thelastknowngod@lemm.ee 11 points 1 year ago

The good ones enable the shitty ones.

[-] Case@unilem.org 7 points 1 year ago

Agreed.

I have met good people who are Christian. They usually don't cowl all their behavior behind god.

There you're friends dad, who barely knows you, who helps you get your car running so his kid and friends can make it to a metal show. He didn't like metal, but he kept it to himself other than saying it wasn't his genre, which is a fair statement.

Why did he devote an afternoon and a couple trips to auto zone? Because all in all we were good kids. He wanted us to have fun, but to arrive (and ultimately) come home safe.

[-] stolid_agnostic@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The comment you are responding to is reactionary in nature and surely the result of a great deal of pain and trauma at the hands of the sort of people they are referring to. In this case, I think it is ok to let someone express their emotions and assume that they don't really mean for it to be a universal statement.

[-] killeronthecorner@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Why would you assume they don't mean it to be universally applied?

The biggest religions in the world harbor the largest rings of pedophiles, bigots and oppressors of women and children that exist.

There are surely religious people that consider themselves good and act in a moral way, but their support of organizations that allow and defend such abhorrent values and behavior defies that.

As someone put further down "the good ones enable the bad ones". So while you or I might not take the same stance in our own lives, I can absolutely understand why someone might not want anything to do with religion or religious people.

[-] stolid_agnostic@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I’m trying to be charitable to the person who started this part of the thread. There are most definitely perfectly good religious people out there though they are involved with toxic organizations.

[-] killeronthecorner@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Is being involved with a toxic organization not toxic? Or are you saying these people are victims of their religion?

[-] stolid_agnostic@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

IRT the first part, I think so. Even if you're a genuinely kind person, if you support an organization that practices cruelty, you are supporting cruelty.

IRT the second part, I wasn't saying that, but would agree with that statement--people are often a victim of their cultures.

[-] MonkRome@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago

There is no such thing as a good religious person

I've known extremely religious people that were very kind to everyone around them, only focused on doing good in the world, and never pushed their beliefs on anyone else. "Good" and "evil" are very reductive and simplistic terms. Good people can have beliefs that are not good for society and they are not completely defined by that. If we go to that absolute then there isn't a good person that exists. Pretty much everyone harbors beliefs, irrespective of religion, that when examined may be detrimental to society, they just don't know their own blind spots.

[-] cogman@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Well said. Though I will say that we need to stop giving religions passes for bigotry.

Churches in the US get huge tax breaks, can set up explicitly racist schools, or they can operate worse than the worst MLM. Some of the followers are somewhat to blame, but really it's the organizations as a whole that need to be revisited.

Why should my tax dollars subsidize a church building where the pastor tells their congregation that people like me are an evil that should be purged from society? Why should they subsidize a pastor that has a private jet? Or a church that actively protects child abusers and/or wife beaters?

And frankly, it's only certain religions that receive these sort of benefits. Any sort of native religion or niche religion won't get half the benefits we give to multimillion dollar religions.

[-] thelastknowngod@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

I've known extremely religious people that were very kind to everyone around them, only focused on doing good in the world

Being religious is not a requirement for doing good in the world. If the religion did not exist these extremely religious people you know could continue to do good in the world while not simultaneously supporting organizations that enable corruption, abuse, dishonesty, violence, oppression, etc, etc..

If anyone is still believing in these hokey stories or exploitative organizations they are either willfully ignorant to the world around them, gullible rubes who are victims of a centuries old scam, or actively benefitting from that exploitation.

I stand by my statements. Religion is a virus. It's a net negative in the world that stands in the way of all human progress.

[-] MonkRome@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I was responding to you saying "there's no such thing as a good religious person". I don't really disagree with the rest of your perspective, yet your arguing as if you assume I do. I think it's reductive and crass to judge someone on a single data point. That was my primary point.

[-] stolid_agnostic@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 year ago

As a gay person, I have a saying that is similar: "When I meet someone who says they are conservative, I know that I have just met someone who wants me to suffer."

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[-] sanpedropeddler@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago

What is it you hate so much about religion? I could see disliking specific religious practices, but what problem does every religion share that makes you immediately distrust all religious people?

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[-] ThePenitentOne@discuss.online 1 points 1 year ago

Religious people push their beliefs on people all the time, that's what it is made to do so people can concentrate power. If a religious person has kids, you can guess how they are going to think. The whole idea is just complete bullshit and so stupid that anybody with a capacity to think critically knows it is false. Only people incapable of self reflection or thinking actually believe it.

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