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What is this spider? Central Kentucky
(beehaw.org)
My first inclination is a recluse, but I'm aware of how many people get that wrong what with all the similar looking spiders around here.
Yes, the trap-doors are more closely related to tarantulas than the other spiders you mentioned, so they are much bulkier. That one looks to be male to me, so I think you’ve found one out looking for a lady.