Are there a lot of women who like submissive men ? (lemm.ee)

submitted 8 months ago by DelilahBlack@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Or, would you say most women actually perfer submissive men?

To be more specific, I'm talking about men who are submissive in their role in the relationship as a partner and also sexually.

It's an interesting, I guess, maybe taboo sort of topic that I would like opinions on.

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[-] NotJustForMe@lemmy.ml 6 points 8 months ago

There are people who prefer other people in specific ways, sometimes.

That's about as precise as this ridiculous notion can be entertained.

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe 2 points 8 months ago

What if I were to tell you this ridiculous notion is actually a fetish thing?

[-] NotJustForMe@lemmy.ml 1 points 8 months ago

That would be a different question then, wouldn't it?

[-] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 1 points 8 months ago

Yeah I've found women are way into men who don't describe themselves as dominant or submissive. It is way more attractive to ditch those ideas and just be a partner.

Sexual kinks are a different thing, but if you're worried about attracting women as a whole or for a relationship then it's too early to talk about kinks like that anyway.

[-] intensely_human@lemm.ee 1 points 8 months ago

98% of appeals to the inherent ambiguity of language are actually people afraid of thinking about a specific topic.

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