158
submitted 7 months ago by spaduf@slrpnk.net to c/mensliberation@lemmy.ca
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[-] kilgore_trout@feddit.it 4 points 7 months ago

Read the whole comment. I don't have many friends, and all the close ones are women. I can talk with them about many things, but sometimes I end up relying on the only lesbian one among them hoping that she's "male enough".

My comment is anecdotal, of course, you don't have to believe that many other people have sometimes the need of hanging out only with other men. But even among acquaintances who hang out in couples in a friend circle, it's habit that some weekend retreats are boys-only, girls-only.

[-] mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 0 points 7 months ago

Many women don’t feel empathy towards men. They were never expected to.

lol you actually believe this?

I don’t have many friends,

surprise surprise surprise!

just a giant bucket of 'no, really?' every time you comment.

[-] kilgore_trout@feddit.it 3 points 7 months ago

Replying to multiple comments of mine at the same time looks like a personal attack. But aside from this, I don't understand what do you want to accomplish.

lol you actually believe this?

Yes, and among women I know it's not done in bad faith. It just takes some patience to get them to care.

surprise surprise surprise

What if I told you that I don't have a car either. How would it be related to anything you know of me?

this post was submitted on 24 Feb 2024
158 points (85.9% liked)

Men's Liberation

1833 readers
2 users here now

This community is first and foremost a feminist community for men and masc people, but it is also a place to talk about men’s issues with a particular focus on intersectionality.


Rules

Everybody is welcome, but this is primarily a space for men and masc people


Non-masculine perspectives are incredibly important in making sure that the lived experiences of others are present in discussions on masculinity, but please remember that this is a space to discuss issues pertaining to men and masc individuals. Be kind, open-minded, and take care that you aren't talking over men expressing their own lived experiences.



Be productive


Be proactive in forming a productive discussion. Constructive criticism of our community is fine, but if you mainly criticize feminism or other people's efforts to solve gender issues, your post/comment will be removed.

Keep the following guidelines in mind when posting:

  • Build upon the OP
  • Discuss concepts rather than semantics
  • No low effort comments
  • No personal attacks


Assume good faith


Do not call other submitters' personal experiences into question.



No bigotry


Slurs, hate speech, and negative stereotyping towards marginalized groups will not be tolerated.



No brigading


Do not participate if you have been linked to this discussion from elsewhere. Similarly, links to elsewhere on the threadiverse must promote constructive discussion of men’s issues.



Recommended Reading

Related Communities

!feminism@beehaw.org
!askmen@lemmy.world
!mensmentalhealth@lemmy.world


founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS