This is why Idaho, Texas, Florida, and Utah have similar campaigns about “don’t California my state” and by “California” they mean don’t bring your “liberal/socialist/Communist/woke/progressive/democratic” outlook to their states, because they don’t want to be responsible for cleaning up the racism and various other problems that the red states seem to have adopted as their identities.

This also happens to a lesser degree with "the nearest large & fairly progressive city" I grew up in Madison, WI, fell in love with a girl from a small town across the state and we moved in together, got married started a family etc. So the dogwhistling that happens when you talk about the nearest liberal big city is real. I'm selective about who I tell that I grew up in Madison, and I listen for the obvious dogwhistling like "oh I try to avoid Madison as much as possible" "oh I really don't like Madison"

And now that trumpian politics have had a chance to really take hold we're planning on moving to a larger city, in part because we dont want our kids growing up around so much racism. When local online communities, local organizations and local community meeting places (aka the local bars) are riddled with dogwhistley comments because people feel comfortable saying them (which wasn't so bad just a few years ago!) It's just not pleasant