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I know the real answer is reddit but I really don't want to go back now that I've already grown used to life without it. I was hoping for Lemmy to be a viable substitute but it isn't. I can see how this place is wonderful for the certain type of person but that person is not me. My experience during the past 6+ months has been a net negative and I'm pretty much ready to move on. I just don't know where else to go.

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[-] Doll_Tow_Jet-ski@kbin.social 11 points 8 months ago

Kbin interacts with Lemmy and seems to me to contain reasonable people willing to have respectful discussions

[-] metaStatic@kbin.social 14 points 8 months ago

speak for yourself nerd

[-] Thorny_Insight@lemm.ee 3 points 8 months ago

Yeah that too, though this issue is the most prevalent on certain .ml instances and can be avoided by not commenting there to begin with.

[-] cabbage@piefed.social 6 points 8 months ago

Absolutely. There's a small handful of sites full of insufferable stalinists. Thank god I didn't discover Lemmy when I was 14, I might have been swallowed right up.

Just block those instances, your experience will be better immediately. And don't hesitate to block individual users, even if they're not breaking any rules or anything. Finding something to be annoying is plenty of reason not to want it as part of your internet experience.

[-] Thorny_Insight@lemm.ee 8 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I don't mind extremists as long as they're intellectually honest and willing to have a good-faith discussion and don't just immediately attack you personally when you challenge their beliefs. One of the biggest issues here is that when you bring up a point people immediately draw conclusions about you and then they reply as if you really are this caricature of the "other" that they're imagining.

And yeah I'm very familiar with the block feature. My blocklist is around 600 users long. I've blocked like 3 people already today and it's only 9am.

[-] Arkaelus@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago

Without the slightest hint of sarcasm or irony, this made me want to give you a hug.

[-] Joxnir@kbin.social 6 points 8 months ago
[-] Arkaelus@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago

The more, the merrier!

[-] otp@sh.itjust.works 3 points 8 months ago

That's the solution.

I think the .ml ones are tailored to be extreme opinions in one direction

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