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[-] justlookingfordragon@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago

I've always had very very low interest in relationships anyway - I value my "alone time" greatly, prefer to not have emotional responsibilities towards other people and never wanted kids / a family. I fell in love exctly once in my life and that woman turned out to be a psycho. I have absolutely no interest in trying that ever again.

15+ years single and comfortable with the situation.

[-] PhatInferno@midwest.social 11 points 1 year ago

Same boat about just low interest in relationships, im not very social and dont go out to social events often... and apps are always a bit of a joke to me

Imo im just pretty comfortable being alone, and relationships seem like a lot of extra "work" that i probably wouldn't care for much.. if in the future i met someone and we hit it off then i wouldnt be opposed... but im really not gunna try putting myself out there/force it ๐Ÿ˜…

Been solo for +5 years

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