💯 this. Exactly how I roll. It's a guilt trip and I'm willing to bet most people probably do add tips and it's encouraging the wrong people to keep up this bullshit behavior. Tipping should be abolished anyways. I don't want to hear sad servant stories about how you rely on tips. Your employer needs to pay you properly. It's just subsidizing the pay by splitting it between the employer and consumer. It's bullshit.