66
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
view the rest of the comments
this post was submitted on 03 Aug 2024
66 points (68.8% liked)
politics
19072 readers
3650 users here now
Welcome to the discussion of US Politics!
Rules:
- Post only links to articles, Title must fairly describe link contents. If your title differs from the site’s, it should only be to add context or be more descriptive. Do not post entire articles in the body or in the comments.
Links must be to the original source, not an aggregator like Google Amp, MSN, or Yahoo.
Example:
- Articles must be relevant to politics. Links must be to quality and original content. Articles should be worth reading. Clickbait, stub articles, and rehosted or stolen content are not allowed. Check your source for Reliability and Bias here.
- Be civil, No violations of TOS. It’s OK to say the subject of an article is behaving like a (pejorative, pejorative). It’s NOT OK to say another USER is (pejorative). Strong language is fine, just not directed at other members. Engage in good-faith and with respect! This includes accusing another user of being a bot or paid actor. Trolling is uncivil and is grounds for removal and/or a community ban.
- No memes, trolling, or low-effort comments. Reposts, misinformation, off-topic, trolling, or offensive.
- Vote based on comment quality, not agreement. This community aims to foster discussion; please reward people for putting effort into articulating their viewpoint, even if you disagree with it.
- No hate speech, slurs, celebrating death, advocating violence, or abusive language. This will result in a ban. Usernames containing racist, or inappropriate slurs will be banned without warning
We ask that the users report any comment or post that violate the rules, to use critical thinking when reading, posting or commenting. Users that post off-topic spam, advocate violence, have multiple comments or posts removed, weaponize reports or violate the code of conduct will be banned.
All posts and comments will be reviewed on a case-by-case basis. This means that some content that violates the rules may be allowed, while other content that does not violate the rules may be removed. The moderators retain the right to remove any content and ban users.
That's all the rules!
Civic Links
• Congressional Awards Program
• Library of Congress Legislative Resources
• U.S. House of Representatives
Partnered Communities:
• News
founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
How to respond to that? I'm not LGBT but I had one person saying this also saying there is evidence to prove it (of course without providing sources). Is there any way to deal with it?
Just call the person saying it a pedo.
Equally valid assertion!
Are you asking how to respond to folks who throw around “pedo” at people they disagree with/lgbt people all the time? Just making sure I understand the question
Basically the person I talked to told me that all gays are pedos and there is tons of evidence for it (without providing any).
Was not sure what to respond with, because without evidence there's not much to debunk.
In-person: you just concretely tell them “if you want to be around me/in my home you cannot talk about LGBT people that way.” Something to that effect. Don’t bother trying to fight them with information, don’t get drawn into a fight and make them feel like they’re waging a holy war. You frame it as a matter of respect and social consequences, make it clear it’s not acceptable any more than putting up their muddy jackboots on your couch is. Especially if it’s family or just someone you can’t easily cut out. This makes it not about who is right or wrong (they can’t be wrong ever) it’s about respecting you and your space. Same way I don’t demand my parents convince me not to curse around them, I do it because they asked and I love and respect them.
Online: “this is an ignorant, bigoted take.” Report, block, move on with your life.
If it's someone who doesn't really matter to you that much just tell them to shut up and go away. Life's too short to waste time on bullshit from idiots. Not really an argument worth addressing.
Unfortunately we are sometimes forced to be around people we would like to cut out so clear boundaries are the next best thing