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Do you guys have safe spots when you get overwhelmed?
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You can learn to meditate anywhere.
It's like any other skill, you have to put some effort in at the start, but the results are worth it.
You don't need meditation tapes, candles, or anything else.
Find a quiet place, sit down, close your eyes and try to find a quiet spot in your mind. A beach or a mountain top or grandma's kitchen; wherever you feel most serene.
You can just count "one, two one, two" as you breath in and out.
Just try to keep your thoughts quiet for ten seconds to start. Then work up to 30 seconds, and then a minute.
Anyone can meditate.
You don't have to imagine the beach or the mountains. Just find a quiet spot in your mind. Some folks just look at the inside of their eyelids.
It took me a long time to get the racing thoughts to settle down. One thing I would do is close my eyes and start the meditation by thinking about fireworks going off. After a few explosions it was easy to tell myself it was time to relax.
Inhale on 'one,' hold a beat and then exhale on 'two.' Repeat.
Even if it's five seconds to start it's a beginning.
You can also do it while walking or riding a bike. Obviously you don't close your eyes, but you try to think about nothing but the next step or push on the pedal.