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submitted 1 month ago by lriv724@discuss.online to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I need advice because I’m scared lol.

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[-] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 7 points 1 month ago

I'll give the same advice I give on everything:

"In 6 months, will taking this action still have a major effect on your life?"

So, in 6 months, will a "no" change your life in a meaningful way from what it is today? If the answer is no, let that sink in.

Once you can logically define what's "impactful", it makes it a whole lot easier to do those things that seem scary in the moment. And once you do those things aleven a few times, they get easier and easier.

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