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I really want to like Lemmy (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 month ago by moseschrute@lemmy.world to c/fediverse@lemmy.world

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I hate big tech controlling social media. I desperately want social media to be federated.

I really love community-driven social media like Reddit. Lemmy feels… too small. I really loved that Reddit let me jump into any niche hobby, and instantly I had a community. Lemmy, you’ll be lucky if that community even exists, and if it does, chances are nobody has posted in ages.

On the other hand, Lemmy is full of political content lately. I’ve basically been doom scrolling everything US election-related, and it’s really starting to take a toll on my mental health.

I know I can filter content. I know I can post and be the change I seek. Yet, it feels like an uphill battle.

Not sure what the point of this is, or if it’s even the right community to vent about this. I just really want to replace Reddit, but I find myself going back more and more (e.g. r/homekit is very active compared to Lemmy version).

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[-] missingno@fedia.io 3 points 1 month ago

Okay, now you literally are saying I didn't try hard enough.

This is not my first account (it's also not anywhere close to a year old, not sure where you got that idea). I'd tried to start a few communities over on kbin.social, but that's gone now.

I don't have the energy to spend several hours a day flooding threads nobody will engage with, just in the hopes that if I keep it up forever eventually one of them might get a reply or two. It's not that easy, and it's patronizing to act like that's such a simple solution I should've thought of.

[-] flicker@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

This is what I was getting at: communities don't come from nothing. You're welcome to stay where they're pre-built for you but posting endless content is how communities get started.

When I was younger, I was someone who ran a few of those communities myself. If it's patronizing to say you didn't try hard enough (while you're also declaring you, yourself, don't have the energy to do it) then it should be less patronizing, but still fair, to say... if you don't want to do it, don't complain that someone else isn't doing it for you.

If you don't want to be on Lemmy, then don't. Come check back in periodically to see if someone else had the energy to do what you didn't. It's fair to say you don't want to do the work. Whining someone else isn't doing it doesn't get it done faster.

[-] missingno@fedia.io 1 points 1 month ago

I never said I don't want to be on Lemmy. But when people talk about the downsides of this platform's still niche userbase, it isn't productive to jump in and admonish them for just not trying hard enough to manifest a critical mass of users through sheer willpower.

[-] flicker@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

You, specifically, admitted you don't have the energy to do it, and your only evidence you've ever tried is, "trust me," but answering the question of "what do we do to get more people" with the answer of, "post every day and be engaging" isn't helpful?

[-] missingno@fedia.io 0 points 1 month ago

I'm saying that when the problem is a low userbase, responding with "you're spoiled for even wanting niche hobby spaces, and it's your fault for not putting in an excessive amount of energy that isn't even likely to pay off (because the userbase isn't there)" isn't productive.