Don't be sorry, be self-aware. You can look up my comment history, I don't use this kind of language with everyone, but when in Trollistan, I speak troll.

As far as the Dr. Phil stuff, you're describing a typical Lemmy user. Of course I'm male, only had about 98% odds with that one. Am I lonely? Occasionally, but less than most. Not that there's anything wrong with being lonely, which is a very common emotion even among popular people. Subconscious feelings of inadequacy are references to psychoanalytic concepts that have long since been debunked. Dehumanizing? Quite the opposite. I'm trying to persuade the online masses to free themselves from the automated thought process of ideology.