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Trying to retain your sanity while married
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this post was submitted on 12 Dec 2024
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I actually had a very similar situation. After painting the same wall three times in three different colours I told her to fuck off and painted it white.
Didn't learn to paint a sample section first?
I did, made no difference. Large surface looks different.
The verbiage you need is .... "I'm telling you right now that I don't care. Whatever choice you make is fine with me. Can we agree that this choice is yours and if it fucks up I hold no blame. I will not blame you for your choice because as I said I don't care." This of course applies to both men and women.
Yeah but then you still have to paint it again because she doesn't like it.
You are a very patient person, i would refuse the first time. I'm sure she apreciates you and was thankful to be with someone who can bear with her, and did not get silent treatment.
She was actually quite ok with that after a few minutes. I think she realised it was getting silly.