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this post was submitted on 22 Dec 2024
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Trying to be too serious too quick. You've gotta let the dopamine rush of the possibilities wear off before truly knowing if the person is a good fit.
For most people, yes. But me and my girlfriend talked kids, marriage and so on on our first date irl.
You can and should talk about those things early on. But there's a difference between...
(which is about ensuring an alignment of values)
And...
(which is trying to get too serious too quickly)