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submitted 2 days ago by j4k3@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

At 40, I am convinced that we cosplay as adult characters to hide our inner child, mostly from ourselves. Some seem to allow the stresses of life and responsibilities to make the mask indistinguishable, but I doubt any truly make it real. Do you wear the mask of age over the eyes of your inner child? Does age hold a meaningful value to you beyond the comradery of shared experience?

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[-] ricecake@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 days ago

I would lean towards no. I'm me. I don't consider the things that people seem to associate with their "inner child" to be exclusive to children, so I don't feel a tension between my desire to act responsibly and my sense of wonder, joy, and playfulness.

Age isn't a mask hiding the inner child, it's a toolkit that helps them appreciate and engage with those things. My childish delight at birds flitting about the bird feeder is only enhanced by being able to buy my own, keep them filled, and the ability to understand more about everything that goes on with them. I have the experience and faculties to answer questions I have, which only deepens my appreciation for the "common" wonders we see everywhere. Experiencing more of life and it's lows only makes the highs sweeter.

A child plus age and experience is an adult. You don't need to lose the happiness to get there.

this post was submitted on 23 Dec 2024
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