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i will not stop being a furry, i deeply apologize. i shall stop or at least try to stop saying the word "like". i am grateful and i appreciate it
Not that I've looked up your post history as well as the way you type. Everything just screams "14 y.o. girl." There's a lot of personality, a lot of bubbliness, everything's "hyper. " It's just not something you'd expect of an adult.
Adults are usually more reserved and "battle-worn." I'd also look at the wardrobe, especially if you're of smaller stature. Additionally, being an adult is often about taking responsibility. Sucking it up and doing the right thing, so to say. Look at how you've behaved in the past in difficult situations, how you've handled conflicts. Have you ever taken a proactive role in finding a resolution? This may also be your clue.
And here's your other issue...
Nothing of what I said was meant as an offense. Yet you took it to hearts. That is not a response one would normally expect. It's almost as if I'm reading a script from a teenage drama show where a character has an unresolved inner conflict. Doesn't mean I'm correct, just some food for thought.
Your question was "why people act like I'm a kid?" I only shared my observations of why that could be the case. That doesn't mean you need to change anything. Not if you yourself are ok with it.
Also, I was well aware you're 21 at the moment of writing the comment. Yet again, I'm merely answering your question, I really don't mean anything beyond what is written. I'm not judging, no nothing, everything I write should be read in as neutral tone as possible.
The rest was me speculating. Those aren't the questions you should be answering to me, only to yourself. After all, a random stranger on the internet can only do so much, you're the only one who can answer your own question. Best I can do is point you in a direction to dig further, which those were meant for. It's all about retrospective.