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submitted 2 days ago by Cataphract@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I always forget we are creatures of habit till that moment hits. I have a relative who is a woodworker, but the reality is they just love collecting wood because they worked at a sawmill as a teenager and talking about wood was all his peers did. I also have a friend who wears the same cologne since childhood because a crush once complimented them on it.

I suppose always being the "good friend" (in their parents eyes) made me more sociable, so now I avoid "events" because I just feel like it's a game and I don't want my interactions with other people to feel that way (love small gatherings with a purpose though, the Amish got it right with the barn raising).

What are some that you've experienced personally or through someone close to you?

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[-] Bullybeard@lemm.ee 1 points 16 hours ago

Thank u for ur kindness stranger and hey life's never fair yk, we move on with things as best as we're able to and hope for better

this post was submitted on 07 Jan 2025
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