Another great answer. You are super knowledgeable and helpful. I've experimented with everything but am only comfortable with debian/Ubuntu based. Fedora was fairly easy, but still tricky to pick up on some things, didn't give it a longer chance.

Also same for opensuse tumbleweed, I liked it and I was getting around OK, but I felt it was maybe fragile or their security(?) Settings are too tight because it seemed like I kept breaking crap on accident lol. Would definitely be willing to give it another shot.

Now Arch.... This ones so different. I used manjaro when it first released and I liked it and surprisingly picked up on using it kinda quick, but again, I eventually accidentally broke it and couldn't figure out how to fix it due to limited knowledge. But arch distros seem to differ so vastly; its sort of an overwhelming world. Now just pure arch, yea I dont think I could figure that one out, unless its a little more user friendly these days... So thats about that then pretty much. All the main distros in my nutshell, not including forks or spinoffs or flavors or whatever..... Yet alone DEs lol. I get bored easily with just all the same out of box distros so I tend to explore but yet there's so much I dont know about what actually does into a distro and desktop and everything else