[-] SpaceAce@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

Wow. Three hours 😅. Not before bed lmao

[-] SpaceAce@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago

I'm not sure but they do talk about it a lot and I have been cornered with things like "did you know that all fighter pilots since the 1960s have had to take an oath of silence because they keep seeing aliens up there, anyway this whistleblower...".

I'm having a hard time navigating these but letting them have their fun while just asking what they believe and why is probably not a bad approach.

Someone mentioned that going through with debunking them is a spoilsport move that's a lot of work to do right and would probably just sour our relationship at work.

[-] SpaceAce@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

Haha thanks. I know I'm being silly, on a certain level, apologizing for my English but as an anxious person I'm being defensive up front. I still feel like I don't sound like a native, an outsider, and I want people to know I'm not native if they pick up on my English being off.

Thanks for the advice. Though reading all them comments I'm starting to lean towards letting them have their fun. I am not great at debating anyway and maybe questioning without confronting is best.

[-] SpaceAce@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago

Fair point, thanks.

[-] SpaceAce@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 year ago

Thanks. I've been needing more podcasts anyway :)

[-] SpaceAce@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago

That's fair, thanks. Reading this and other comments I think I'm taking this too seriously and furthernore, they're having fun. It feels silly now to have asked but still, bouncing this off of strangers helped. I can only echo chamber in my own head.

I tried to engage them with exoplanetary research. I am also in the camp that surely we are not alone in the universe. Why assume we're special in a seemingly homogenous universe? I am looking forward to humanity finding their first reliable biomarker in space.

I guess we're just excited about the same thing, really.

[-] SpaceAce@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

Thank you :)

I'm just so used to my English falling apart completely when forced to speak it in real time, instead of writing it. I feel like I am not great at making it sound casual either when writing.


Yeah, the common thread here seems to be not to argue and that's likely good advice.

[-] SpaceAce@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 year ago

The Italian military has been simulating Japan with AI for centuries now. The Italians took one of their own words, tiramisu, and made up a whole language from that.

It's no coincidence ちらみす looks like spaghetti. They literally made this alphabet by throwing spaghetti at the wall and then started borrowing evolved bone-script from the Chinese when they got bored with pasta-to-wall terrorism!

[-] SpaceAce@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago

Yeah. Maybe I should ask general questions but not push back on anything. Like "What about this episode convinced you?". "Do you think that's enough evidence or would you like to see something more?". "Wow, so why isn't this all over the news, do you think?"

Or is this line of questioning too obvious?

[-] SpaceAce@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago

Thank you. I'll check it out tomorrow. Currently resisting sleep longer than I ought to.

[-] SpaceAce@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yeah. Also it's not my place to raise adults. But a part of me wishes to plant a seed of skepticism. I have a hard time nodding and going along with it. I feel compelled to question it rather than going along with this kind of small talk.

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Two of my coworkers frequently mention shows like "Encounters" or "Ancient apocalypse" or whatever. I'm not the best at debating or forming arguments against these though I do feel strongly that bold claims require better evidence than a blurry photo and an eyewitness account. How do you all go about this?

Today I clumsily stumbled through conversation and said "I'll need some evidence" and was hit with "there's plenty of evidence in the episode 'Lights over Fukushima'". I didn't have an answer because I haven't watched it. I'm 99% sure that if I watch it it's gonna be dramatized, designed to scare/freak you out a little and consist of eyewitness accounts and blurry photos set to eerie music. But I'm afraid I just sound like a haughty know-it-all if I do assert this before watching.

These are good people and I want to remain on good terms and not come across as a cynical asshole.

(Sorry if language is too formal or stilted. Not my native tongue)

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