What's the sexiest you've done with an internet stranger?

If you had to be as subtle as possible, and wanted to turn someone on, how would you do it?

I do, mostly because the anonymity is liberating. Not needing to worry about what folks who know me irl think about one thing or another. Odds are they wouldn't care, but still.

Almost went left, but even just based off the smile, middle is more my vibe.

Sometimes the potential consequences of doing something irl are just... not worth it.

For instance, risky public sex

Fantasy: ooh the thrill of being caught, what'll happen? Such adrenaline, such stakes 😈

Reality: Go to jail for indecent exposure, do not pass go, lose your job and be branded a sex offender in a government registry ☹️

If you haven't tried it, audio porn. Turn off the lights and the screen, put in some earbuds and close your eyes. They're often slower burn and at least for me is usually a much better experience than video.

Underpaid and overworked 😑

For me, it started out with plain old imagination and porn videos. It took a tragically long time to discover literotica and audio.

At least for me, written erotica (sometimes with the assistance of AI), comics and audio give a much nicer experience with preference changing depending on mood. Part of that might be because it leaves a lot to the imagination.

Only time I use video porn nowadays is when wanting to just "get it over with quickly".

As a regular dude I'd also like an answer to this question. Every service I've tried so far ends up making me miserable in the long run, which is why I don't use them anymore.

Sort of yeah. I find myself attracted to one set, and have an aversion to the other.

However, the attraction sort of hinges on the idea that they are attached to a person. Even with a close-up, the mind imagines that there is a person, and I prefer a complete view to a close-up. I'm not attracted by sex-toys of the appropriate shape.

Now this is someone seriously applying rule 34 by invoking the second clause (rule 35)

IMO up & downvotes both have a purpose. Content can be disagreeable without being rule-breaking. I've certainly found downvotes a helpful indicator in the past, occasionally highlighting a poor formulation that caused one of my comments to be misunderstood.

A potential middle-ground might be disallowing downvotes on post, but permitting them on comments?

Either way, big thanks to you for hosting the site, and hope the donations situation gets resolved!

Ironically, that makes me inclined to go left.