It's a decent video, the minute of book shilling wasnt great.

The title and gimmick of this video is saying people who are carpets/push overs are not being genuinely nice if they sacrifice themselves.

Being considerate of others is nice.

Doing whatever other people say to avoid conflict or disappointment isn't nice.

But since english is vague... this video exists saying being nice is bad for 10 minutes... and moves considerate niceness to "kindness"

I'm annoyed at this videos that just attack vague terms, click bait basically. This video would have been better with a title premise of "Be nice to yourself to be nice to others" or "Being considerate doesn't make you a doormat" etc.