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[-] Unicode13051@lemmyf.uk 52 points 1 year ago

"2 real friends"?

I've been at 0 real friends for so long that even the thought of socializing with anyone stresses me out.

[-] pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I've got one that I treat like gold. They're a childhood friend that is a divorced alcoholic ex-con that went down the keto->carnivore->jordan-peterson->red-pill->gamer-gate pipeline, so not exactly a quality human. But I like to think I'm doing society a favour by keeping tabs on them.

I wish I had a better best friend, but I'm lucky to have even this one.

[-] bobs_monkey@lemm.ee 16 points 1 year ago

Honestly as long as your friend raises you up in life and doesn't drag you down, that's a good friend.

Thanks, I know they're trying. And I mean I do love them, even with all their faults.

[-] Simbomba@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

I think if you wait long enough he will kinda "grow out of it" if it can describe the process correctly. Just once in a while tell him about his wrong doings if he has them

I mean that's what friends are for right?

Yeah definitely. I've started to see that process already. Kinda reminds me of when I was a more virulent atheist and wanted to debate everyone, and just generally be a nuisance.

2 real friends? Impressed

[-] justdoit@lemm.ee 30 points 1 year ago

God I would kill for 2 real friends

[-] Archer@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Everyone is doing so badly this feels like a humblebrag

I'm pretty busy with work and family stuff, but if you're looking for a pen pal I'd give it a shot.

[-] Seraph@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago

"Ew no"

Haha just kidding but making a point how most of us are our own worst enemy on this stuff. We want friends but don't make time for them.

[-] samus12345@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago
[-] Seraph@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

Thank you! I knew I stole it from somewhere but didn't have a clue where from.

[-] Entropywins@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago

Ooof tell me about it that something I've done and have had done to me. I used to think friends are something you have, then a mentor explained to me that friends are an investment and we need to invest our time and emotions into them alongside that terrible thing...being vulnerable...I hate good advice

[-] pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

lol

We want friends but don’t make time for them.

Definitely. I have lost really solid friends over the years, because I don't put the work in. I'm actually not that great at being a friend to others, which I'm sure isn't super uncommon.

[-] robocall@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I will be your friend

[-] Classy@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 year ago

What the fuck is the font. Why are all of the lowercase n's slightly base shifted up???

[-] h3mlocke@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago
[-] TechieDamien@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Why did you mention it?! Now we can never unsee it!

[-] EherVielleicht@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago

Aileron black

[-] Letstakealook@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Why would you do this to me?

[-] Tb0n3@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago
[-] EherVielleicht@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago

Anxiety, thx I am still learning.
Changed it.

What kind you got? My flavour is a feeling out of nowhere like I can't breathe.

It has been a lot better since I stopped drinking, though.

[-] EherVielleicht@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago

Unstoppable feeling that I have to move and I feel my heart pumping, then my hands and feet can't hold still

[-] pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm no doctor but that sounds like fight or flight danger signals to me

[-] NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

Hey, someone else with the "Run" response! Understand exactly how you feel, though mine likes to spike out with some claustrophobia if it gets really bad.

What I wouldn't give to understand what the fuck is going wrong with the hardware up there, or at least to be able to afford getting help. At this point, I think I'd take being a Lith zombie over whats currently going on.

[-] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Captain planet really did do us dirty, didn't he?

[-] balderdash9@lemmy.zip 0 points 1 year ago

At least I can eat cereal for dinner :')

[-] dingus@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago

Got a copy of just the watermark?

[-] EherVielleicht@feddit.de 5 points 1 year ago

here you go.

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