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[-] Vanth@reddthat.com 80 points 3 weeks ago

I was hanging with a group consisting of mostly older millennial gay men who don't like that trans people are being included alongside them in conversations about human rights, sexuality, and gender. They think it takes away from the fight their community has gone through over the past few generations.

I chewed them out. Like, a lot. I am usually not at all confrontational but I pretty much stunned them into silence. Now I'm waiting to let them process, expecting a couple to reach out to me to step back from some of the shit they were saying. If that doesn't happen, I guess I'm not really welcome in that group anymore and I'm ok with that.

There are no trans people in this group. I'm not a gay man nor am I trans. But when I hear shit like that, I hear echos of gay men activists not being willing to work with lesbian women activists, white feminists not includig black women, male laborers trying to keep women out of labor rights movements. It's stupid. It's tribal and hateful. It undercuts the strength the movement could have if we weren't asshats about it.

Rights campaigning 101, strength in unity. This is basic ass shit.

[-] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 25 points 3 weeks ago

Hell yeah. Concern silos divide the people.

Trans rights are human rights

Women's rights are human rights

Workers rights are human rights.

[-] BumpingFuglies@lemmy.zip 11 points 3 weeks ago

While I do agree that unity is the way to go in the fight for rights, I can understand why one would want to separate the T from the LGB. It's an issue of consistency - L, G, and B all describe sexuality, while T describes gender. The two are related, but ultimately separate concepts - one does not inform the other, and grouping them can hypothetically lead ignorant people to think that they are directly related, which could hypothetically lead to non-straight cisfolk experiencing more oppression than they would have otherwise experienced due to the perceived association with transfolk, as non-conforming sexuality is more generally accepted today than non-conforming gender.

That being said, it's all hypothetical, and what matters is the reality that people from all spectra of nonconformity are regularly oppressed, and in many places, the oppressors treat anyone LGBT+ with the same disdain. So grouping them is vital for the sake of the most oppressed.

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[-] Chainweasel@lemmy.world 40 points 3 weeks ago

If it were supposed to be pronounced "jif" it would have been spelled that way.

[-] BumpingFuglies@lemmy.zip 20 points 3 weeks ago

The creator of the format is documented as having confirmed the pronunciation is "jif", but I don't care. Once he created it and put it into the world, he relinquished his control.

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[-] HatchetHaro@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

This is a jem of a response, but by jeneralizing pronunciations of acronyms only by the way they are spelt, you are opening a jigantic can of worms on etymology and linguistics.

The jist of it is that English is a weird language, jenerally descriptive, and there can be many correct answers to the same pronunciation problem.

As for me? I'm a choosy developer, and I choose jif.

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[-] notacat@mander.xyz 16 points 3 weeks ago

Laser is an acronym for Light Amplification by Stimulated Emission of Radiation, and yet we all pronounce it “lay-Zer” not “lay-Ser”

[-] HatchetHaro@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 3 weeks ago

The A in amplification and E in emission are pronounced differently too, so the "correct" pronunciation would be "lah-seer".

[-] derekabutton@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago

So how do you pronounce giraffe?

[-] mp3@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 weeks ago
[-] derekabutton@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah and it's giraffe, not jiraffe. See how that gets us nowhere?

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[-] makingStuffForFun@lemmy.ml 9 points 3 weeks ago

GIF is an acronym. Giraffe is not. The Giraffe response has been debunked for decades.

Graphical is a hard G.

[-] derekabutton@lemmy.world 16 points 3 weeks ago

Debunked? Its a counterpoint to the fact that it's pronounced that way because it's spelled with a g. If that poor argument wasn't used, the giraffe one wouldn't have to come up. It's not evidence of anything other than that letters can be pronounced in more than one way.

For the graphical thing, imagine pronouncing NASA wrong because of the way aeronautical is pronounce. Or underwater in scuba. World in WHO? The I in AIDS isn't pronounced anything like immunodeficiency.

Your argument doesn't work either.

[-] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 3 weeks ago

Thank you for providing me all new ways to pronounce things in horribly cursed ways, magic internet man.

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[-] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 3 weeks ago

How do you pronounce github? GIMP? GNU? GPU? Javascript?

Oh Geremy, it's time to jo to the jocery store! We need some jrape gelly.

[-] HatchetHaro@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 weeks ago

Geoff is a gentle German giant with ginger hair. He's also a germaphobe, though generally he's still a genuine gentleman. You get the gist.

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[-] gandalf_der_12te@lemmy.blahaj.zone 34 points 3 weeks ago

Pedophiles aren't the problem.

Rapists are the problem.

[-] jaggedrobotpubes@lemmy.world 23 points 3 weeks ago

Just a fact. A pedophile who never acts on it is just some guy.

[-] tomi000@lemmy.world 21 points 3 weeks ago
[-] HatchetHaro@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 weeks ago

just wish people understood the difference between a paraphilia and a crime.

[-] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 29 points 3 weeks ago

Saying that my favorite cli editor is nano

[-] spittingimage@lemmy.world 10 points 3 weeks ago

The only CLI editors I've used are VI and Nano. So my favourite CLI editor is Nano too.

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[-] FreshLight@sh.itjust.works 27 points 3 weeks ago

In a discussion about whether liking trans women is gay or not I said that they are all missing the point. Even if it was the gayest thing on earth, being gay should never be this big of a deal. And it just shows how hard it is for some to overcome the stigma of being gay, even if they are super tolerant in general.

That started a group discussion with a lot of different opinions on that matter.

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[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 23 points 3 weeks ago

Marxism is correct and more relevant than ever.

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[-] CameronDev@programming.dev 19 points 3 weeks ago
[-] TehBamski@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

This is one of those coders' beefs, isn't it?

[-] monovergent@lemmy.ml 18 points 3 weeks ago

School is where the passion for learning goes to die and the desire to cheat is born

In this day and age, hobbies are the last bastions of passion and curiosity. One who is engaged in a hobby is intrinsically motivated to learn and apply what has been learned in novel ways, just as the scholars of old have done. School, reviled by many a student, has earned its reputation by perverting the concept of learning and exploiting students' passions. The desire to cheat is most unnatural among students, a telltale sign that one's passion and curiosity for the topic at hand has been extinguished, replaced with a desire to rid oneself of a burden, the burden of learning only for the sake of becoming learned.

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[-] hogmomma@lemmy.world 17 points 3 weeks ago

The American public school system as it currently exists is largely a joke.

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[-] AbouBenAdhem@lemmy.world 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Stuck a wire in a power outlet.

[-] TriflingToad@lemmy.world 13 points 3 weeks ago

For Lemmy specifically, I don't think police need to be abolished.

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[-] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 13 points 3 weeks ago

People should be free to vote for those who best represent them, secure in the knowledge their vote will still be counted against those they don't want in office.

[-] hperrin@lemmy.world 10 points 3 weeks ago

That only works with non-first past the post voting systems.

[-] JustAnOrdinaryCreep@lemmy.ml 12 points 3 weeks ago

People considered woke often only focus on institutional racism and make every other form of racism seem unimportant, including those targeting so called "whites" / Europeans. (And I'm not trying to victimize perpetrators here, I'm aware of the current and historical situation in Western countries.)

I see that institutional racism is a huge problem, especially in the West, but that doesn't make any other form less important or significant.

For comparison: just because in sub-saharan Africa people starve on a daily basis due to extreme poverty caused by Imperialism doesn't mean that poverty inside industrial nations with less harsh effects is less of a problem, especially to the individual.

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[-] celsiustimeline@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 3 weeks ago

Using a word incorrectly 1,000,001 times shouldn't change the actual dictionary definition of the word.

[-] thevoidzero@lemmy.world 13 points 3 weeks ago

But if everyone is using it to mean something new then we need to record that.

[-] barsquid@lemmy.world 11 points 3 weeks ago

But that is literally why we have many of the definitions accepted as standard today.

[-] Default_Defect@midwest.social 11 points 3 weeks ago

"Literally" officially meaning "figuratively" radicalized me.

[-] ReCursing@lemmings.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

Lear Welsh or French. They're both Prescriptive languages where that is (officially) true. English, however, is a descriptive language which means the dictionary is there to record how language is used not to define how it should be used

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[-] ProgrammingSocks@pawb.social 10 points 3 weeks ago

Probably "we should eliminate cars as personal transportation"

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[-] tamal3@lemmy.world 10 points 3 weeks ago

Telling 8th grade content teachers that they must modify their assignments to accommodate migrant students and English learners, and that just directly translating those documents forever wasn't going to cut it. Gosh there was a lot of grumbling in the room.

I get it, we're short staffed and overwhelmed, but it doesn't make it go away.

[-] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 9 points 3 weeks ago

Told my friend that she was being a terf when she started saying terf shit.

[-] toastal@lemmy.ml 8 points 3 weeks ago

Markdown is trash. It almost always comes in a fork that is naturally incompatible with other forks & never has the features you need for blogging or technical writing (leading to abuse of the limited features, unsemantic markup output, and/or embedding HTML which is both ugly & also ruining portability to non-HTML targets). This leaves you locked into some specific tool’s forked implementation & never looks good in other contexts. Markdown was also never the only or best option for lightweight markup at any time.

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[-] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 8 points 3 weeks ago
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[-] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 7 points 3 weeks ago

Ever?

The SNES is better than the Genesis.

Screw you, Douglas, I was right!

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