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Today's weather forecast (Melbourne CBD, 3000): min - 13°C, max - 25°C. 95% chance of no rain.


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[-] Baku@aussie.zone 4 points 37 minutes ago

Been a long time since I did a garden update!

Most stuff died off, and I've come to the conclusion I don't really have the time or energy for active or regular gardening. By which I mean getting out every week to rip up weeds, watering every single day, getting rid of pests and insects, etc. the gardens at the last place went fully feral, turned into a jungle. Mostly coriander and kale taking over. The garden beds were never really my domain though, the old LT handled that and I was mostly just in it for the sake of getting into the sunshine for a few hours a week and having a good chat with him on weeding day

The planter box I had packed to the rafters with herbs and such completely died. Not sure if it was the lack of watering, or the overwatering that did them in. But yeah. Completely 100% dead and beyond repair. I've been watering it hoping that there's something still there just waiting for the right moment to come back up through. Worst case, it's a nice planter box still, so I kept it and might just dump the soil and plant something new

The pineberries and strawberries completely died, then they came back, then they died again. I kill them everytime they start flowering and fruiting. Not intentional, and not from overwatering. Mostly lack of attention and forgetting about them. The pineberries (I think) are flowering a little bit, so I might get some fruit soon. The strawberries aren't flowering, but I'm hopeful once they realise it's safe, they will

I gave most of the front patio plants back to the old LT before I left because I don't have the capacity to look after them all, and he bought them out of his own money for the sake of licensing the place up. Seemed a shame to either let me kill them, or leave them behind, and let them die themselves. I took most of what was left

Everybody keeps telling me all about how mint is invasive and will go everywhere with basically zero care BUT I'VE KILLED 4 FUCKING MINT PLANTS, ALL BEYOND RESURRECTION

Anyway, photos:

2x plant photos

[-] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 2 points 26 minutes ago

hugs to you too

contrary to popular belief gardening in containers is more difficult than gardening in beds

they dry out so quickly, or get over watered too easily, the food depletes quickly, weeds and bugs can take over , they can get too hot or cold

Just do what you know works :)

my vegie pots now consist of fast to grow lettuces, a few herbs , radishes and chilies. Nothing the birds want to eat either. The rest are easy bulbs like gingers , succulents and orchids.

[-] Baku@aussie.zone 1 points 16 minutes ago

Thanks, but no hugs needed! I'm actually fairly okay with it. I haven't personally invested in most of it, I kind of just got it all through gifts or cheap from Bunnings

I know garden beds are kind of easier in some regards, but I prefer planter boxes for a few reasons. Largely because I hate having to bend over and kneel down. Not a mobility thing, I just don't really like having to kneel down into the garden beds or suffer the consequences of hunching over while weeding or whatever

Also I'm very arachnophobic, and contrary to what everyone also keeps telling me, trying to remember they're more afraid of me than I am of them, or its their home, or they won't harm me, or trying to do DIY exposure therapy has not helped at all. Bugs in general freak me out a bit. With planter boxes, they're mostly isolated to the rims of the boxes, with the occasional small ones building homes in the strawberries. But they usually move on pretty quickly when they feel the water from the hose. The lack of weeds also means I don't have to stick my hands into deep foliage and hope for the best (a terrifying proposition for me, even with gardening gloves!)

[-] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 2 points 21 minutes ago

Don't feel bad. I've killed bamboo and cactus.

I have however grown a human successfully so that kinda trumps everything but I do envy the green thumbs at times. Now days I prefer to appreciate and admire their work from afar.

[-] Baku@aussie.zone 2 points 13 minutes ago

Haha I almost killed the old LTs cacti when he went on holidays for a month 😂

I forgot to water for the first 3 weeks of his holiday, and then realised "oh shit, everything's almost dead" so compensated by overwatering. They weren't happy about that, but did eventually dry out and calm down. I find aloe to be the easiest thing to grow, because it never seems to fully die, at least the big nature plant I have. It'll just go brown then bounce back. It also doesn't seem like it can be overwatered, not that I'll be testing that

Growing a mini human is definitely more of a feat!

[-] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 1 points 5 minutes ago

Not your fault. Did it ask you what it wants? No. Communication please.

Why yes, I am watching YouTube videos of people transforming those insanely expensive Transformer toys.

What of it?

[-] dumblederp@aussie.zone 3 points 1 hour ago

Beats buying a $1000 transformer when the novelty will wear off in 20 mins.

[-] Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 2 points 49 minutes ago

Exactly! Not in a million years could I justify something like that (nor want it really) but seeing them in a video is cool

[-] Force_majeure123@aussie.zone 4 points 1 hour ago

Met up with my dad and his partner for lunch, beautiful day out. Definitely cheated on my no carb diet with noodles... and icecream. Back on the wagon tomorrow 💪

[-] Baku@aussie.zone 6 points 1 hour ago

TheStench™️ is still in the bathroom. It seems less bad than a few days ago, but I don't know if that's a good sign, or just a reflection of the reduction in temps and relative lack of sun recently. Still makes me nauseous though, even with Glen 20

The flies are entirely gone. Haven't seen one in a few days. They never really got extreme, just maybe 5 or 6 at any given time, which I sprayed on sight. Again, don't know if that's a good thing, or just means there's a few thousand incubating up there

[-] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 7 points 2 hours ago

I am really going through it 😞

[-] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 6 points 2 hours ago

hey, hugs ,

[-] Baku@aussie.zone 4 points 1 hour ago

Biggest of hugs

[-] PeelerSheila@aussie.zone 3 points 1 hour ago

Wishing you a better run of things real soon 💖

[-] Duenan@aussie.zone 3 points 1 hour ago

I hope you feel better soon.

[-] anotherspringchicken@aussie.zone 3 points 2 hours ago

Hugs. Anything we can do to help?

[-] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 6 points 2 hours ago

Sorry no, I’m just not travelling well and being a crappy human

[-] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 6 points 1 hour ago

so many hugs

I don't know anybody who works so hard to be a good human

so be kind to yourself 😘

[-] Baku@aussie.zone 4 points 1 hour ago

Ditto

We all think you're a great person melbsy

[-] Pilk@aussie.zone 6 points 2 hours ago

I'm in my happy place (slouched in my chair with a belly full of Japanese curry)

[-] Duenan@aussie.zone 4 points 2 hours ago

We’re 6/91.

We could actually lose this one.

[-] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 3 points 2 hours ago
[-] underwatermagpies@aussie.zone 4 points 1 hour ago

Makes for an exciting game though.

[-] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 3 points 1 hour ago

True. A tight game is a good game.

[-] Duenan@aussie.zone 2 points 1 hour ago

True. Going to come down to the wire even on the 5th day.

Just hope we can build up a nice lead but we could run out of time and end up in a draw as well.

[-] Duenan@aussie.zone 3 points 1 hour ago

Yeah. Been a tough one.

How you feeling today Ceo?

[-] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 3 points 1 hour ago

Much better today thanks mate.

[-] Duenan@aussie.zone 2 points 1 hour ago

Any idea how you tweaked it in the first place?

[-] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 1 points 1 hour ago

No. Woke up with a pinched nerve (I suspect) probably because I had shit to do.

[-] Duenan@aussie.zone 5 points 3 hours ago

Bleh. I woke up late today!

[-] PeelerSheila@aussie.zone 2 points 1 hour ago

Your grass is greener than mine lol

[-] useless_modern_god@aussie.zone 6 points 3 hours ago

Dismantling the tree now. 🎄

[-] Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 7 points 4 hours ago

Now that was a sleep in!

[-] Alamutjones@aussie.zone 6 points 3 hours ago

Gon' get a pie for lunch

[-] Catfish@aussie.zone 7 points 4 hours ago

6 avocados to the bin. My day is ruined.

[-] Baku@aussie.zone 5 points 3 hours ago

Is your disappointment immeasurable?

[-] Catfish@aussie.zone 3 points 3 hours ago
[-] PeelerSheila@aussie.zone 12 points 5 hours ago

Mr P and the MIL are arguing again. She was up early and woke him up to ask if he'd make her bed when he had the chance. If there was no urgency why wake him to ask? Caused a lot of angry stomping, door slamming and ranting. Might have to take the Minipeelers out for a bit after I've finished doing today's laundry. So sick of this toxic shit. If I had the money I'd be out of here like a rocket.

[-] dumblederp@aussie.zone 6 points 2 hours ago

I think I'm on Mr P's side on this one. Woken up on Sunday morning to make a bed, jeeze that'd rustle my jimmies.

[-] Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 3 points 3 hours ago

That sounds rough. I'm really sorry you and the mini's have to go through that. I second the idea of getting them and yourself out of the house. I hope things settle down soon ❤️

[-] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 8 points 4 hours ago

Might have to take the Minipeelers out for a bit

Yea I'd definitely take a breather from that. Sounds like MIL needs reminding on what's appropriate behaviour. Easier said than done though i'm guessing.

[-] PeelerSheila@aussie.zone 7 points 4 hours ago

For sure. She'll be 91 this year and he'll be 65. Both too dang old to retrain lol. They both know the other won't change, it's a vicious circle.

[-] bacon@aussie.zone 5 points 4 hours ago

buns, hot and crossed

[-] LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 9 points 5 hours ago

I've gotten to the point where I've made so many mistakes over the past few days, that I'm asking how many mistakes is too many. I think it's about time I give ADHD meds another go and stop thinking that the one shitty experience I had with one med means they'll all be like that.

[-] neurospice@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 hour ago

Most people tend to respond well to them, it's just a matter of finding out which med works best in each individual. Luckily we have a few to choose from in Australia, so hopefully you can get one that works well for you.

[-] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 2 points 2 hours ago

You and me both

[-] Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 2 points 3 hours ago

I gotta tell you: without the ADHD meds I'd still be doing manual labour and unable to do anything else. If you want more info, shoot me a DM.

[-] LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 6 points 5 hours ago

TIL the song N.I.B. by Black Sabbath is titled that because of Bill Ward's goatee, which the band members thought was shaped like a pen nib.

Such a fun way to title a song.

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