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Why are you single? (programming.dev)
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[-] notepass@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago

vaguely points at everything

I might also be too lazy to put any work on dating apps. Maybe I should start that again.

[-] Sighing8705@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I don't feel any great urge to be with someone. I had two LTRs with little time between them from when I was about 17 through to 28. I've been single now for around 18 months.

While I'm grateful for the experiences across both my relationships and have a lot of happy memories from them, I am quite okay being with myself for now.

[-] besmtt@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Because I can't find a woman and the only women who find me are awful.

[-] csm10495@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

I got married last week. Before meeting this person I never thought there would be someone for me. Anyways if you want to be single thats fine. If you don't: try putting yourself out there and ya never know what'll happen.

[-] bouh@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I've been oblivious to the few women that were interested in me, and I'm too shy or social inept to do anything with women anyway.

[-] Clbull@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Because I'm 31 years old, autistic, still living with my parents and haven't even managed to do the deed with a woman. I have so many things going against me that I've pretty much accepted that I am undateable. Things are so bad that I am seriously considering a trip to Germany or the Netherlands just so I can go to a brothel and pay to have sex - because it gets more pathetic as the years go on. Nine more years and I will be the loser that Hollywood makes films about.

Doesn't help that online dating is a cesspit and that the kind of ladies you see on your typical dating app are incredibly frigid and stuck-up. Not sure if it's a British thing...

It feels like the only way you will get a girlfriend in today's world is if you look like a fucking Chippendale or Love Island contestant.

[-] lorez@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

SSRIs. Yeaaaah!

[-] uber_chicken@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I don't need another person to live my life the way I want to live it. So if they bring something I don't already have and make my life better, I keep them as friends

Iโ€™m not

[-] Nemo@midwest.social -1 points 1 year ago

I ain't. Just celebrated thirteen years.

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