The prompt seems to come from a really rushed place. There's "throughout... year" contrasted against "will take years" and then you have "want to get to know" contrasted against "threesome, perhaps foursome." Like, it's comedy. You're not getting to know a person inside of two hours, unless it's specifically in the most limited of biblical sense of knowing. Ask anyone in a long term relationship and it takes months to really know a person, and sexually? Even if you're the most open of people it's going to be nearly as long to learn how a person 'ticks.'

In. In porn and life, I find the outside to be a complete turn off. It not only feels better to finish inside, it's so much better to feel the other twitching inside.

So, like, they'll want to lay their ear against your chest? I can see the endearing nature of that, considering how many passionate encounters begin or end in that position.

I don't know who else to share this with, which is one of the reasons I made the post, but I am nearly squealing with joy right now. My first reply to these threads was about trying to deepthroat bigger phalluses (phallusi? is it greek based and thus I have to break out my declensions?), and I was eventually able to get the 11"(I think?) tentadick down, but now I feel like I've made real progress.

I was in a good mood and headspace, and really wanted to go for IT. Well, a little self love and some mild moaning later, I had my lips all the way to that bottom ridge. I don't know if it's physically possible to lick the balls, but maybe in the next few weeks I'll get further. One day I'll be dating someone again, and get to whip this party trick out with them, but until then, ya'll are the best audience I could get!

It's usually 'polyglot' though, right?

We constantly get accused of taking two lovers, thus lowering the amount available for others, despite the incredible challenge of just trying to keep one around when they think you want to cheat on them with someone of the opposite sex.

I have no idea where I'm at, because the difference between a 9 and a 7, or a 4 and a 7, doesn't really get into my mind much. I think some of my kinks would get me banned from places, but they're mostly fantasy. They would never happen in real life. So does that make me a 10, or am I only a 5 because I set hard limits and know I don't want those things, only to imagine them?

...now, that being said, if there was some way to experience something and recover (so no permanent injuries, physical OR mental), I'd try just about everything. I know I wouldn't like everything, but I'd try it just to say I had.

Anyway, peg me about a 7. Between the occasional furry fling (and all the craziness drawn art can get up to, whoah), deepthroating 13" dildos, and my libido, I'd say I'm pretty perverted.

No, or at least, not necessarily. Physically, I like females smaller than me and males bigger than me, and some other odd quirks that are definitely different between the sexes. Redheads and blondes drive me wild, for example, if they're women, but turn me off in men. Give me black hair and dark eyes that frame a kissable male mouth...mm.

Mentally/personality is about the same for desire though.

It's been a while since I last talked about it, but I had hit my limit with the deepthroating because of the size of my dildo. The horse cock was just a little too large to get down the throat, so I went and got a slightly smaller diameter one that is just a tad longer. It definitely gets into the esophagus now.

Sadly, I don't know if the physical limit has been reached. :( I can't quite comfortably thrust in and out without triggering the gag reflex. I've worked on it a few times, but no improvements yet. Also, sadly, I don't really have anyone to brag to about it. Practicing deepthroating definitely doesn't come up in casual conversations with friends and coworkers, lmao.

Well if you weren't so far away... ;)

I mentioned last week that I was getting obsessed with deep-throating. It turns out I either had a weak gag reflex to begin with, or you can train it away quickly if you're dedicated. I can hold the normal penis sized dildo nearly indefinitely, though breathing around it is difficult. I also managed, after a lot of tries, to fully engulf the chance I was trying for. Now I just need to find someone with a 9" or more dick to see what practice can do. Or maybe not. Shyness is difficult to overcome, apps just want all of your data to sell, and I'm not going back to reddit to find someone.

My lips wrapped around something. For some reason, deepthroating just settled in my mind this week. I've been planning for months to get a realistic sized human dildo with a suction cup, and finally got around to doing it. I was pleasantly surprised to get the 6" all the way in pretty swiftly. Technique will have to be worked on, but enthusiasm makes up for deficits, aye?

Then the next random thought drifted along: if I can take the realistic, what about something bigger? So I pulled out the ole bad dragon I have laying around (a medium chance, to clarify), and went a little bit farther than I normally do when playing with it orally. There's definitely a little resistance as I get it into the pharynx, and I can control the gagging up to that point. I can't get it much farther though. Angles and a little pushing and lots of spit don't seem to overcome a barrier of some kind. I'm a little disappointed. I once was told by a dental surgeon that I had a narrow airway, so I wonder if I'll ever be able to swallow the damn thing. I really, really want the visual and feel of my throat bulging, and I've only got my lips to the medial ring, so there are several more inches to go.