That's a good way of putting it! I normally act without regard for perceptions of masculinity or femininity and I feel like that's appealing for couples looking for a third.

For me it's happened twice overtly and I suspect once that didn't become an explicit request. I'm vocally monogamous, I'm not very social, and I'm still kinda young so I feel like those numbers are pretty high. For me I feel like it's how I present myself and act, which is pretty stereotypically "queer." Once that gets picked up on by other couples I think they seem more interested.

To be completely honest I sought out a Lemmy frontend specifically because I wanted to tag you lol

I'm not sure about the founding fathers, but isn't that exactly why the pilgrims came to North America?

Old Friends by Simon and Garfunkel?

Thank you!! I haven't noticed any weevil communities yet but I'm in as many bug groups as I can find lol

I normally find turtle chips in international markets where I live! (Mid-Atlantic United States)