Well, the day after D and I met he let me know he just tested positive for chlamydia! So rather than getting me tested, my doctor just wrote a prescription and said no sexy fun for two weeks. Which has been...fine.

I get basically nowhere without kissing. Talking and touching don't really do it for me without the kissing. Even just a little polite peck gets the blood flowing.

Random acts of blowjob are the rare late night exception that prove the rule.

Don't even ask about the sex.

I'm 100% asking about the sex.

Today I learned that I'm a bot lol.

I stopped posting the thread since it mostly was just me sharing my sexy fun and people weren't adding their own stories or comments much anymore. I was curious to see if anyone would say anything.

I post nsfw content here and get sexting partners. I even got one real life connection from it 😈

Just ask first 🙂 don't go all "no one expects the Spanish inquisition!"

Issue I've run into is partners don't realize they need lube to do that. Spit kinda works but not really.

You can even just play with the hole and not put anything in and it'll feel nice.

I was sick most of this week Tuesday night (onwards), sorry I wasn't very active on conversation on here this week. But oh boy still got up to some stuff before I got sick:

• After the very weird hotel hookup early Monday morning (see last week's update), I was still clean and really felt like bottoming. Found a really sexy local vers/top guy who was into coming over. My height, a little leaner, better muscle, and damn handsome. Dude was also seriously packing - about my length but thicker. We had excellent chemistry, awesome kissing and foreplay, and he gave it to me good and deep. He was surprised at how well I can fit an enjoy -- he's not used to guys with such cavernous booties. He was so so close to driving me to that point of prostate orgasm that I've only reached playing solo with toys! I have his number; he would be happy to bottom for me any time, too :-) He also helped me by filming and taking some pics of us fucking, which was a first for me. Very hot.
• I found out from a random grindr chat that there are more guys/couples in my apartment building that are into hooking up/"making friends". Lucky me, Tuesday evening we had our belated holiday party
  • The mood was really fun! Folks made or brought some very tasty food and dessert. OMG Deborah's cheesecake with the fruit top was just divine.
  • Met a bunch of gay couples, including the one that lives right below me! We traded numbers so they could let me know if things are too loud (or viice versa). In that couple, I like the younger one more -- kinda twinky Asian guy ;-)
  • I met a lovely hetero couple which is moving in. We chatted a lot, they like to drink and have friends over, so hopefully they'll help me make more friends, too.
  • Later I got a text from the older guy in the gay couple that lives below me: "I knew when I met you you looked familiar, but I couldn't place until I saw you on Grindr again. :P now we're definitely gonna be friends. Haha" 😈
• Some sexy-ish texting and images with my boy J in LA
• Keeping in touch with R. We couldn't meet since I was sick.
• More sexy-ish texting and pics with J in NJ, who I met at the Naked Gaymer Night last week. We thought about meeting up on Friday but I couldn't make it work with my schedule and the train timings.

Yes they're terrible because they work. I remember one thing I liked about /r/aww was they banned titles like "Are iguanas allowed here?" Or "isn't my Fido cute?" It helped the sub's quality and I think it was one of the best default subs over on that website.

No really naughty fun for me, however:

• My apartment reno is finally done! Spent my first night in it getting the place set up. Decided to have an edible and enjoy a long masturbation session with poppers. The combination of cannabis + poppers is how I learned how to have a full body orgasm, so I still like to do it sometimes. I had some Doritos and Ben & Jerry's afterwards, too :-)
• I wished J a happy birthday, and he said meeting me this year has definitely been a highlight :-D
• Seeing J swimming in these sexy "euro" style micro briefs on my LA trip inspired me, and I bought a similar pair for myself! I'll need to wear them (alone) around the house a bit to feel more confident, then who knows! Maybe I'll learn to pose for a new post in /c/themaleform?
• I almost forgot: inspired by another Lemmy user I restarted my foreskin restoration journey today. I made great progress many years ago but yeah let's really go all the way now!

Merry Christmas!

My apartment renovation might be done in about a week! Just one experience, but one worth turning into a long update here.

I went to my first ever sex party!

I've only even done 1/1 stuff up until this point, but I got invited to a local sex party. It was fun! I'm going to break it down by sections.

Location: At a huge suite at a nearby hotel. $20 cover. The host stocked chilled water, condoms, dental dams, lube packets, mints, blow pops. Poppers available for purchase. He told the telegram group how to walk into the hotel and avoid reception, and a secret knock for the door :-) Suite had a huge glass shower, a whirlpool, multiple rooms, sofas, chairs. The host put porn on the TV sometimes.

The group: 37 guys, with most arriving within the first hour. Very distributed in age, from 21 up to probably 60s?

The other action: Mostly older guys started anal and stuff before I even got there. A lot of oral and random anal. It was nice to see how one guy would ask another if he wanted to bottom, and to hear "yes, and condoms please" I liked how polite things were. Some guys enjoyed more random chilling in the whirlpool, too.

My action: I don't really like guys that old, so once I started to feel warmed up, got involved in a few things

• Basically everyone wanted to suck my cock, and most of them did a good job!
• Making out with a sexy shaved otter while another guy is on his knees sucking both of us
• Topping a very slutty bottom bent over the bathtub
• Choking a slightly older guy calling me "daddy" while he beats off furiously and I push him against the wall
• Bringing a hung twink over to the bed so I could rim him while he sucks me
• Being sucked by another guy while I'm making out with the twink and a bear, at times with both simultaneously. I don't know whose mouths, hands, and butts are going where. It was like everyone was on a mission to get me to orgasm! This was how I came the first time. By now the group had thinned down to about 10, mostly the younger guys.
• Relaxing and joking around when a new guy comes in late and I introduce him, and we make out, and the whole cycle starts all over again.
• Inviting the passionate hung twink to top me, and he does a great job. Hits all the right spots. Other guys are watching, some are touching us, some are encouraging us. Eventually he lies next to me and we make out and jack off and cum together that way. He shot so far it hit a guy two people over. The host later asked to be invited to the wedding lol.

My thoughts: It was really fun. Seeing that many other hard cocks in one place, I do see how mine is pretty nice, both in size and shape. I got to try a bunch of things I've wanted to try for a while. It lacked the intensity that I feel with a 1/1 encounter. It took me much longer to climax than normal, I think because it was such a new experience and I was a little bit on edge. I think I would go to another party like this, but probably try one in NYC next instead of Long Island. I am in touch with a few of my favorite guys via Telegram, Scruff, and/or Grindr, including: shaved otter, hung twink, and new guy (who it turns out is super kinky). Hung twink agrees that I get to top him next time ;-)

All in all I was there about 5 hours. Oh, and I got an ice cream bar on the way home :P I'm happy to take any questions or provide more specifics.

Actually the problem is with all male content even in male only communities. So many users browse all local communities not just the ones they subscribe to, so will downvote any male content. I say this as a man who only posts on male communities basically. The number of downvotes is too high to only be from subscribers.

He's in the process of (maybe) coming out as bisexual.

I don't think you meant it that way, but bi guys especially have to deal with everyone assuming they're closeted homosexuals. So when you say "you're gay" it's inaccurate and a little hurtful.

On the flip side, bi women struggle with everyone assuming they're just "experimenting" and are actually straight.