Goals.
You're not going anywhere unless you DECIDE to go there.
Forget "how do I know if its the right goal"?
You're can modify and change your goals as you go. Kind of like practice?
Just do it. Start small. Review regularly. Act on the steps that reach your goal.
Paisley. Blue.
Lots of great advice here. NEVER too old to learn.
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Nope. Your opinion is not my identity.
The NPR article says there are 20 states...
What the fuck is going on in the United States of America.
What sort of person would be able to help me?
You.
Goals.
A car is not useful without a direction. A life is more useful with goals.
Where do you want to be in 10 years? If you don't know, pick something. As you gain direction toward your goal, you can refine the goal. Or, since you have momentum, switch direction even.
Break down your 10-year goal. Smaller and smaller goals, 5 year, 2 year, this year, next month.
How can you help yourself? Find someone who can coach you with setting goals. A little easier than finding someone who can help you with your "life".
firefly
We should feel duty bound to copy those jokes into this thread as backup:
Did you hear the one about the Ballerina Debate Team?
They always stay on point.
The cruelty.
Yep, it needs to change. From Wikipedia