Why is wanting a person with money even in the same ballpark of bad as lying to people to get them into bed?

Just because I don't understand or share the preference of someone doesn't mean I want them to get used like a fleshlight.

Is it seriously your opinion that a person wanting someone with money is a bad human being who deserves to be treated like what your workmate did?

This is simply misogyny. And people are ultra casual about it. That's seriously scary. I wonder what other partner preferences you think makes women basically lose their right to be treated with a baseline of respect.