Men, how do you deal with the misandry online. Does it affect you mentally? (lemm.ee)

submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by Wanderer@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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Seen this on reddit and thought it was an interesting question that largely is not talked about.

It is largely an issue that gets sidelined and hidden because people don't want to talk about it or accept that it exists. Hopefully this gets some traction to break that marginalisation.

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[-] ogmios@sh.itjust.works 26 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I’ve never seen anyone hate men just because they’re male

I've almost never actually seen it, but it's BAD when it does appear. Had one boss tell me straight to my face that I was going to be useless because I was a man. She did all sorts of really petty stuff, like removing the clock from the break room and chewing me out for being ~30 seconds late coming back from break. Lost that job in less than a week when she literally lied to the manager that I never showed up for a shift. I could have easily fought and won for the job back, but I just didn't care at all and spent my effort on more fruitful things.

[-] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 13 points 4 months ago

Fuck fighting to get a job back. You probably could have sued her for MONEY!

[-] ogmios@sh.itjust.works 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Erh mah gurdh MERNEY!

Yea, not going to lose any sleep over that one.

[-] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 months ago

Not worth it in the US unless you are certain to get enough to never work again. You will be framed as anti-woman regardless of facts and that will effectively ban you from future employment.

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