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Even if it wasn't so much "manipulative".

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[-] AntifaTeamLead@lemmy.world 125 points 1 month ago

I have and will continue to make a small number of obvious omissions or minor misspellings in my work when I submit it to my bosses for review. Not in the majority of my work, but mostly when they may have some resistance or hesitation on a course of action or a part of the project.

If I can trick them into contributing to the project by fixing or improving it, they end up feeling ownership of it in a way they wouldn’t have otherwise. I do this on purpose, and turn a hesitater into a champion of the work. It’s our project now!

[-] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 53 points 1 month ago

I ask leading questions that make people think an idea is theirs. Business people love their own ideas. A woman's? Not so much.

[-] SwordInStone@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago
[-] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Yeah, it is a bummer. But at this point, I'm old and used to it, and this is the fastest way to get traction on my ideas. 🤷

[-] Jimbabwe@lemmy.world 33 points 1 month ago
[-] voracitude@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago

This is an example of "managing up". It requires understanding people well, a particular weakness of mine.

[-] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 19 points 1 month ago

Oddly enough I have done this in reverse to Jr members of my team. Amazing the engagement you get when they catch something they see as obvious, and thanking them brings up moral.

[-] TheDoozer@lemmy.world 29 points 1 month ago

In this case it's "morale."

Waaaaaaaait a minute...

[-] AntifaTeamLead@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

It’s a win-win for everyone. Plus, if the person misses the obvious thing, you know what not to trust them with in the future!

[-] trolololol@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Probably didn't read

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