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[-] just_kitten@aussie.zone 4 points 23 minutes ago

Finally made it to the laundromat, body aching and tired, having finished cleaning everything (EVERYTHING bar the fly screens/windows and insides of cupboards!) and bought groceries and inspected a rental and made dinner and washed all that up too. And god I hate mopping the floors but it does make the place feel nice when I do remember to do it. Just a shame I won't be here much longer. No more attachment.

Half a day of work tomorrow... and long-awaited therapy sesh after. I'm gonna sleep well tonight tho.

[-] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 5 points 26 minutes ago
[-] StudChud@aussie.zone 2 points 20 minutes ago

Ah some kind of skink 😍😍😍

[-] Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 7 points 43 minutes ago

Goodnight everyone ❀️

[-] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 3 points 13 minutes ago

Red light district gibson.

[-] StudChud@aussie.zone 1 points 5 minutes ago

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

[-] PeelerSheila@aussie.zone 3 points 34 minutes ago

I'm loving your Goodnight from Gibson nightly posts. Goodnight you two!

[-] PeelerSheila@aussie.zone 4 points 36 minutes ago

The skin specialist rang to organise an appointment with me. Earliest they can do is end of next week. Ok. Then she tells me it'll cost $365 and I'll get $80 back via Medicare. She heard the thing in my voice when I agreed to the appointment and said if I wanted to cancel at any stage to just let them know by Tuesday. I just can't afford it and Elder's therapy as well. Feeling very conscious about the takeaway we had this evening, we shouldn't have had it, but I came home tonight and just didn't have it in me to cook. Mr P just laying about in bed most of the time with no energy and feeling guilty. That's what it's like after the heart procedure thing he had, my MIL reckons, as his dad was the same. Boss shuts the factory for 3 weeks over Xmas and New year, so that's 3 weeks with no dough. Time to get tougher with money.

[-] StudChud@aussie.zone 2 points 13 minutes ago

Aw man I'm so sorry you're going through it right now, that's so awful. I hope things turn around, it sucks to struggle, I feel that. Sending you my love πŸ’œ

[-] StudChud@aussie.zone 2 points 30 minutes ago

IVE HAD A LOT OF TIGER BEER AND SOME RANDOM WHITE WINE

[-] useless_modern_god@aussie.zone 8 points 2 hours ago

Made caramel apples today and learned some things along the way.

[-] PeelerSheila@aussie.zone 5 points 51 minutes ago

Please don't think I'm weird, and your apples are surely lovely, but the first thing I noticed was your hands looking so beautiful and young! My 51 year old hands are lined and creased from hard manual work, dry skin in places, ruddy from years of hot water and wiping and scrubbing and washing, with brutally short nails for hygiene reasons. And I wear gloves at work, but not often at home.

[-] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 4 points 37 minutes ago

I say send @useless_modern_god@aussie.zone off to the salt mines to teach them a lesson. Hand envy is real.

[-] TheWitchofThornbury@aussie.zone 1 points 48 minutes ago

I bet one of the lessons was to wear shoes with solid tops to prevent harm from splashes of hot sugar ... which can burn to the bone.

[-] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 4 points 2 hours ago

Ooh looks good! I remember the red toffee apple things as a kid but haven't seen one in ages.

[-] useless_modern_god@aussie.zone 4 points 1 hour ago

They are tasty ! but yeah some techniques were learned for next time.

[-] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 8 points 2 hours ago

Wussed out of the swim but made it to the beach:

The erosion on the dunes is extreme. They need to prod it with a stick or TNT can get it over and done with.

[-] TheWitchofThornbury@aussie.zone 8 points 2 hours ago

Tonight is such a beautiful evening. Soft and warm, light breeze. I have opened up the house to let the air through.

[-] Force_majeure123@aussie.zone 4 points 2 hours ago

Too hot for me alrdy. Air con is on. Need to buy a new fan tomorrow

[-] Alamutjones@aussie.zone 6 points 3 hours ago
  • New glasses βœ…
  • NDIS admin βœ…
  • back pay rent βœ…
  • gym βœ…

All tasks for today done despite agony. Dinner is cooking and will be up shortly. As soon as I’m done eating, I will be retreating to bed with a book

[-] Duenan@aussie.zone 5 points 3 hours ago

Bleh.

Why do I always let me coffee go cold before I drink it?

[-] wscholermann@aussie.zone 7 points 4 hours ago

Constant articles from the Guardian about how the world is on the precipice of untold calamity is really not helping at this point.

What are the practical solutions?

[-] useless_modern_god@aussie.zone 5 points 2 hours ago

Don’t read the Guardian

[-] RustyRaven@aussie.zone 4 points 2 hours ago

Based on the assignment I just finished writing you should worry less on the big complicated issues and focus smaller, more local issues you can directly impact. I will be focusing on reducing food waste, which through it's connection to all other problems in existance will eventually fix everything.

For details of how you will need to wait for my next assignment.

[-] TheWitchofThornbury@aussie.zone 5 points 3 hours ago

The world has ALWAYS been on the brink of calamity. It's just that the calamity du jour affects different groups/people differently. Some are not affected much and therefore do not care as much, and for some it's the end of the world as we know it and a serious disaster. What's different about nowadays is that the group that's going to be negatively affected is much much larger, and includes folk that up till now haven't had to think about it much. I'm with @imoldgreeg on this.

Do what you can in your own life circumstances, and help others where you can without making your own life harder. Don't forget to thoroughly enjoy the good bits of your life too - that's just as important. Possibly even more important. Cos these refuel you for coping with the other shit.

[-] imoldgreeeg@aussie.zone 6 points 4 hours ago

I genuinely suffer from this grief all the time. I am not gonna claim I have anything solved but I can share a few things I do. Firstly I understand/believe we are past a few critical tipping points and there's a good chance of things getting real bad (especially for marginalised communities - wealth buys some protection for longer). I trust any path humanity has through (waves hands) all this boils down to connection - with nature, with community, with 'source' (whatever that means).

I am devoted to doing the little things that are in front of me to do. Caring for the people that I care for, caring for nature in little ways. I am fortunate that I have a career that's in an area I care about too. And I look at the stars, the ocean, the trees. I often say sorry to them. And I know they will go on after me. Taking that time helps me.

This quote I saw on twitter a loong time ago sums up how I get through and I often look at it

[-] Alamutjones@aussie.zone 8 points 4 hours ago
[-] Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 1 points 42 minutes ago

I've got old reliable on my shoulder

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[-] TinyBreak@aussie.zone 5 points 4 hours ago

Too early to put up Christmas lights?

[-] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 3 points 3 hours ago

Nah put them up. The wee one will love it.

[-] RustyRaven@aussie.zone 2 points 3 hours ago

One of neighbours has had the Christmas tree up for weeks already.

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[-] imoldgreeeg@aussie.zone 4 points 4 hours ago

Took a very rare long weekend to hang out with visiting family today and even though they do my head in sometimes it was just lovely to have a day in the sun not having to solve anyone's problems 😎

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