For those of us that won't ever have kids, pets can allow us to exercise and nurture our instincts to take care of a dependent, living creature. I feel like that's pretty psychically and emotionally important, especially in a new world where more people are choosing not to raise children.
My job had been very cruel to me and it put me in a steep depression. My partner, and I love her so much for this, was cool with me taking some time off to get my head straight. A few months in and I’m sort of drifting and lost. So she buys me a Morkie dog, so now I have something to FORCE a routine onto me and it was great. That was about 6 years ago and little Doug is about 10 years old now and while he’s a total assbutt, he is irreplaceable.
very sweet and they seem to sense when I'm feeling down and come to cuddle with me or ask me to play.
It’s so incredible how my cats can sense my emotions. Love them.
I know right! :)
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