I’m not saying the US didn’t vote for one of two fascists, but the EU is as well.

I was thinking of food additives and giving animals antibiotics

It’s faster and has a different feature set. Also it’s written in Node.js, not PHP, so I can integrate it into my Node.js apps.

Neither of the servers you mentioned can work on a flat file system folder, so managing my Jellyfin media wouldn’t even be possible with either of them.

Neither supports file deduplication, encryption at rest, PAM authentication, or .htpasswd authentication.

Both require a database and can only be managed through their web interfaces.

Both of their web interfaces require modern browsers, so wouldn’t be supported on something like a terminal based browser.

Thanks! That's sounds great.

Thoughts on linkding?

Why this versus NC or baikal

My main server has 28 tb up and 8tb down checked via my router.

Honestly that reads very bizarre. How has your experience been? How’re the courses?

Thanks for responding!

It seems to me that you’re very focused on the end result of ‘issue is solved’ potentially without understanding and/or acknowledgement of the other person’s efforts to solve the issue on their own.

Of course they should take the time to reciprocate when you’re the one seeking resolution.

I guess I am focused on the issue being solved but only for everyone.

Listening to someone and allowing them time to vent to their own conclusion is to take part of their emotional journey. They may want your solutions eventually, but they want to have the human connection of going through that journey together so that way you have all the context for their feelings/stress.

People don’t come to others for help and want to defend their previous actions. They just want to say that they’re frustrated, this is what they did, this is what happened, and maybe that’s all they want. Listening = validation of the human experience. Maybe after venting, they’ll want some solutions.

This is insightful!

Personally I have a hard time telling if someone wants a venting session or a solutions session. So I just straight up ask what they need and if they’ll want to check in on the solutions after venting. This saves you the emotional labor required to try to help someone that doesn’t want it and keeps the chance of frustration/unfulfillment low for both parties

That's a great method. I guess I can't tell as well.

Family though is a mixed bag. Unless both parties are operating under the same expectations, it’ll lead to what you described. Understandable that you just don’t get it since the fault is not on you

Yeah family can sometimes be the hardest especially when emotions are high, no one acts with reason.

Thanks for your reply. What is the solution then beyond listening and trying to solve the issue? If I cannot experience what they experience, what can be done?

Got it, thank you Davel

This is the sort of question that I think warrants also asking in Reddit. Your baby deserves a bunch of answers and so does your pain