I wonder how these people would feel if there were individuals that would argue for thieves to break into their homes and take it over.
"I don't want anything of mine stolen! they broke in!"
"But sir, why don't you want people to have a place to live in? Make peace with it!"
Any dumb and vaguely open-ended advice. Like "just be yourself".
What if you're improving yourself because the real you sucked? Do you just give that all up and return to what you were? Whoever first said that piece of advice, obviously didn't think it through enough.