Still on Long Island, still no job, so things have been weird.

• Friday, however, while out to run some errands, I met up with a guy on Grindr who lived near the hardware store. He wanted to take care of my cock, and I wanted that, too.
  • Fun guy, very chill, played music on his PS5/Spotify. Spent so much time sucking me off, about an hour the first time. He was somehow squeezing his throat tightly around my cock while fitting most of me in his mouth -- I have no idea how it was amazinig. I was rimming him for so long, too, and I loved how much he loved it. I'm starting to get pretty good at slapping a nice big booty while chowing down. Sounds good, and feels good in the hand.
  • Slowed him down a couple of times so we could keep going. Finally, I let him swallow my load and we had some nice chatting and goofing around.
  • I had him cum while I was rimming him, which was enough to drive me to cum a second time. He was a good boy and ate it all up again.
  • Some fun embarrassing stuff with his roommate coming home early and me mostly naked cleaning up in the bathroom. Good chat about the anime we like. He also had an adorable and chill cat that played with me for a little bit :-)

Welcome! First thought is damn, this guy is hanging dong. Second, you have really nice and defined legs. Third, how did I miss those big, heavy balls? Overall I'm seeing a lot to like! I hope we'll see more of you over time.

This is really interesting. Good for you to keep exploring and learning. Did you learn anything in particular about yourself or sexuality in general this time?

You can also get a prescription for DoxyPEP which will reduce the risk of other STDs. Ask about it. You take it in addition to PrEP, not instead. Stay safe, my bi brother!

I need one. A hookup had one and it was both fun and sexy.

Hot damn. If you live life like that we should hear from you more in our weekly naughty fun thread man.

Thanks! I did pretty quickly remove the "bisexual" label from my profile and that helped. It increased my matches from 0% to 10% female 🙃

As I mentioned last week, I took this week off from sex. Some of the guys and gals online did a great job of teasing me with some very naughty chats, pics, and videos. Basically had me constantly hard and wanting to fuck. I think I had gotten used to being really sexual because I had to jack off up to three or four times a day to feel normal!

On a cleaner note, I went to a black tie benefit event with my sister. She's a great wingman. With her support, I got the phone numbers of two really sexy, beautiful, and smart women! I haven't picked someone up like that in a long time. I'm making plans with each of them (separately!). Let's see where it goes!

I just signed up for Tinder, and listed myself as bi. It's kind of annoying that I'm matching like 90% with guys and maybe 10% women. I would like a more even split. I guess this is why some other bi guys told me they use those apps for women only...

edit: I guess at least there are a lot of very attractive people in general on there.

I'm laughing I'm crying I'm a little turned on. This story has everything. Definitely a memorable experience! And hey, you did it!!

Standard disclaimer that there’s gay shit here. ETA: It seems like most other bi guys out there are…weird…

I’m away with family this weekend, but I had a fun week, with lots of new experiences! Though the week also definitely ended strangely. I think I need to focus on building more good connections with fwbs and stay away from random hookups.

Monday

• Random blowjob I found a guy who works from home really close to my office. As I was leaving work early, I offered to come over and give him a blowjob, no recip, just some worship and cocksucking. He had an hour before a zoom meeting, so I was happy to hop over and oblige. It was really a lot of fun. I never sucked a guy off to completion before — I enjoyed feeling completely in control while I worked on his cock and balls. He was a nice size too, not too difficult but still a mouthful. I think when he’s free I’ll stop by more to continue to practice giving blowjobs.

Tuesday

• Fucked a power bottom I had been chatting with a guy who describes himself as a power bottom for a while. We decided to meet up for a drink, and ultimately headed back to his place. Guy is hilarious! He was recovering from an injury, so we decided not to try and fuck. However, after a lot of foreplay and cuddling he couldn’t help himself, and I ended up breeding him. He showed me some of his power bottom moves, including his muscle control and his powerful legs. Great kisser, too. When he was screaming my name it felt so hot. He also called me “daddy” a few times which is new to me, but I didn’t mind.

Thursday

• Introduction to Tantric Sex I had chatted with a local yoga instructor and tantric expert a while back, and when he saw I hadn’t signed up for any of the workshops he recommended, he offered to give me an introduction himself. We didn’t have sex. Instead we talked about tantric philosophy, did some relaxing and energizing warmups, and explored each other’s bodies and the sensations that brought on. It was really interesting, and I felt good and energized afterwards. He’s offered to teach me tantric bj next :-)
• Cock worship gone wrong a muscular well hung bi guy was looking for guys to come over to worship his muscles and cock, and I thought that would be fun after my tantric lesson. Guy seemed okay when I showed up, said he had had drinks with friends, so definitely a little buzzed. Said he absolutely hates hands so I decided to use my mouth only. I got to work right away, and quickly started to learn how to suck a big uncut cock and have it feel good and stay manageable. After some time I realized the dude was still grabbing a drink, not of water, but of vodka! After a while longer I saw his THC edibles and tinctures on the table. Then I realized he was both drunk and high, and figured I’d get him to cum and move along. Then he told me he doesn’t cum with guys, he just likes getting blowjobs to relax. So I left! What a weird guy. He feels bad now, and has offered to let me hot dog him — slide my cock between his muscular cheeks until I cum. I might do it, might not.
• Grindr hookup gone weird I was really horny and unsatisfied at this point, and turned to Grindr. A guy a block away offered to come over for a quick sessions. It started steamy right out the gate. He has my cock in his mouth then abruptly asks me “are you close?” And I’m not so he says, “sorry man, I’m not feeling it I’ll jerk off at home”. I ended up cumming all over myself as he’s leaving my place and closing the door.___

Thank you for being responsible. I wish more people were like you. Our communities are very small, so people browsing local can have an outsize effect.

If I need to be quiet I can be completely silent. However lately any moaning or heavy breathing has also included some growling and grunting too. It can get pretty loud when I'm completely in the moment with a partner. I don't actually know how loud as I'm not paying attention at the time. I really really love when women moan with pleasure.

Men are good, too, of course. I think they can be more shy.

Bonus: yeah it's only polite that way if they want it somewhere specific I can try try oblige.

Okay you really want to know, then I’ll tell you. Has gay stuff so don’t read if you’re a prude. But if you’re a prude, why are you here?

I signed up on Scruff, and my phone has been BLOWING UP. I will skip the dozens of explicit chats, image swaps, custom videos, etc. and just tell you about this one:

• A sub bottom reached out to me around 4pm on Friday. I’m not really dom/sub, but it’s fun to mess with people, and I can give it a try. So I mention chastity and he is REALLY into the idea. He has to meet friends for dinner and hanging out at 7, so he comes to my place, and I put my chastity cage on him for the first time in his life.
• It’s his first time, so I use a cut-able travel lock and tell him what to watch out for in case it’s too tight or painful.
• The whole time he’s at dinner we have absolute FILTHY dom/sub texts back and forth about how it’s not his cock anymore, it’s my clit, etc. and every time he feels it, he feels my hand tightening around him, because it’s mine. My god he LOVES this. Periodically while at his friend’s apartment, he goes into the bathroom to take a video showing me his cage is still on and huffing poppers. HE BROUGHT A FUCKING BOTTLE OF POPPERS with him from his house to my place, to dinner, to his friend’s apartment.
• After dinner probably around 1am or so he wants to come back to my place to show off his cage but I know he wants more. He comes over, pulls down his pants, takes off his shirt, and shows me his whole body. He was leaking precum all over himself all evening and had made a huge mess in his pants.
• He then worships my body and my cock until finally he gets to swallow my cum. He did a good job. Once I’m finished, I open up his lock, and let him take care of himself, while I hold and kiss him in my lap. We clean up and he heads home by 2am.
• TODAY (Sunday) he came back to get locked up again. This time he has the key, and I taught him how to put on/remove the cage. That’s his responsibility now. I’m still not having sex with him, so he has another random hookup come and facefuck him. I told him not to tell his hookup about the cage in advance. The guy was so surprised but LOVED how much of a pig this sub bottom is. They both had a good time, and the sub bottom realized he really is so much more focused on pleasing the cock in his mouth rather than his own useless nub when he has it locked away. He’s going to make sure he likes it then probably buy his own. He can’t have mine. That things was expensive around $150.

So here’s the thing about all that, by the way. It’s fun for me to roleplay, but I’ve learned I’m really not part of this whole dom/sub dynamic. I can play the part, but for me it’s just play. These guys LIVE it.

Edit: why do you have a chastity cage? It makes it a lot easier for me to enjoy my dildos without immediately cumming myself from masturbation.

Edit 2: a shorter story from this week: a gay couple reached out to me to see if we have chemistry. They’re cute. The wild thing is the partner that reached out to me is BLIND and the audio of the video of me cumming turned him on so much he wanted to reach out. Isn’t that crazy?! (that video is posted here on Lemmy)