Since Lemmy didn't have one yet, I created !gonewildstoriesgay@lemmynsfw.com. In the future, I might type of some of these experiences as longer stories there, and just link them here with a short tl;dr: summary. But also feel free to post your own stories there ;-)

I've been sick for about a week, but I'm finally starting to feel better tonight! However, last week I was up in Boston. And while I was traveling with family, I still had my own hotel room, soo... why not have a little fun right? But just a little:

• NYC Hinge date + sexy fun! Before I left the city I had a Hinge first date with a vers guy. I invited him to a museum invite I could take a +1 to. A lot of fun to have some cheese and champagne on the museum's dime :-P We had dinner in the neighborhood, and headed back to my place.
  • Pretty quickly things got steamy, with lot of touching, and pretty good kissing.
  • Guys about my size, a little leaner, a little less muscular. Still a nice chest to hold onto ;-)
  • Moved to the bedroom. He isn't quite as hung as I am, but plenty big enough for a fun time.
  • We start with him riding me, but I think after all the drinks I had had (2 + 2 + 1) that afternoon/evening, I wasn't really feeling it, so we just flipped.
  • Our boy can go hard and just keep going. He was fantastic with topping. A lot of energy, and just hard enough to hit the right spots once I gave him some encouragement. It was inspiring. I lost track of time for how long he went at it. Eventually we both were feeling stiff so went for a more relaxing and intimate side-by-side thing.
  • Like me, he's really into smiling, laughing, and even joking during sex. He remarked about that in the middle of fucking. It adds a lot to our chemistry together.
  • We finished by touching each other, kissing, and getting down to swallow each others' loads when it was time.
  • Was going to see him this week, but I'm still too sickkk :-(
• Oral fun night 1: a nice product designer who's been visiting Boston for a month from Mexico city came over to my hotel room well after midnight. Normal build, cute face. Enjoyed giving each other blowjobs -- his was not too too big, so it was easy for me to focus on technique and practice more ways for him to get new pleasurable sensations. Big balls too. We share some pretty big loads with each other. Just hung out and shared Boston/Cambridge travels tips and restaurant/ice cream recommendations for another hour or so :-)
• Oral fun morning 3: I woke up really early, and this guy showed up as just 83ft away on grindr. Tags hung, vers top, oral. I offered to come over and say a quick hello, and he asked, "How? With your mouth? :-)" and sure why not !
  • Handsome guy visiting from Philadelphia for a work conference, who had just gotten in last night.
  • Excellent kisser!
  • Really nice and rock hard throughout our time together, which was a real delight. He's a bit bigger than me, so yeah he deserved to call himself hung ;-) it was more of a challenge than my friend on night 1.
  • We kind of switched between who was in charge, which was fun for me, too.
  • He was gently jacking me off while I sucked him, which turned me on even more. After he came and I swallowed his (surprisingly sweet) cum, he took him time focused on returning the favor :-D
  • We exchanged info, apparently he comes to NYC a lot. We should probably flip fuck.

This week has been rough, as I was laid off from my job on Tuesday. I did come into the city later in this week to meet with some other affected colleagues, and tried having some fun while I'm here:

• Friday after lunch in Queens, I found a guy in the neighborhood looking to get sucked off. Thick dick, big balls, and really chub. It was a fun experience! Things got really really sloppy. He likes roleplay, so he was laying down in his bed pretending to be asleep. We chatted for a while afterwards -- he's a super sweet bi guy who's enjoying exploring his dom side with guys after breaking up with his gf recently :-)
• Friday night I didn't want to do much, but a potential FWB, S, wanted to come over. This time instead of chatting we moved to the bedroom really quickly. He's more bottom but had never been rimmed before, and I was happy to oblige. I never had someone sit on my face before, and I really enjoyed it. He was crying tears of joy from the pleasure of the experience. Very fun to kiss and feel each other -- we did that for hours. I didn't want to do anal, so he made me cum with his hand. Sweet guy.
• Saturday I took a train to spend the weekend with J from NJ. I met him at Naked Gaymer Night and we really hit it off there. Kinda twinky blond, yoga body. The plan was to have out own private Naked Gaymer Night :-) We ordered Chinese delivery, had a drink, and smoked a weed vape for a bit.
  • We played Strip Smash Bros, and apparently I'm better than expected, because I got him naked fast. Though I fully undressed too and we had more awesome making out.
  • We never discussed sexual preferences, turns out we're both mostly tops, but we also had both prepped to bottom :-P he really wanted to bottom for me. We had a lot of fun exploring his ass, focusing on prostate pleasure. I had trouble fitting in, even with poppers he was tight. Eventually I'd get in, but he'd tense up and get so tight it got uncomfortable, and I didn't want to hurt him.
  • J thinks I have a primal side and I try too hard to be polite. He might be right. Once he gave me permission to be rough and go for it, I fucked him hard and came so so fast he was surprised that I had already bred him! He topped me for a bit, but I think with all the poppers that wasn't easy for him, either. We spent the rest of the night more chill, with fingers in his ass, and he came that way while jerking off. He really wanted me to top him again that night (and for longer), but I think the pressure he placed, plus all the job stuff I'm dealing with had me not really feeling up to it.
  • Slept together and I loved the feeling of my cock getting hard in his ass crack in the morning. He loved it, too :-)
  • The morning was a repeat of the night before, but this time with him down on the floor, face down, ass up. At times my whole body snugged up against him, using him like a pillow. I loved the way he was moaning, and he even snuck a few "daddy"s in there which I liked.

They knew how horny you were, clearly 😉

♥️ It's great to hear from you, man. You have a lot going on and I'll I can really do is wish you luck on the job search and on restarting your dating journey. I think under the circumstances you were right to not go in for a kiss. At most a hug. In fact I'd consider asking for consent when you do try for a kiss. I've heard from a number of people that they think it's really sexy to ask before kissing. Egyptian VR?

This is really interesting. Good for you to keep exploring and learning. Did you learn anything in particular about yourself or sexuality in general this time?

You can also get a prescription for DoxyPEP which will reduce the risk of other STDs. Ask about it. You take it in addition to PrEP, not instead. Stay safe, my bi brother!

I need one. A hookup had one and it was both fun and sexy.

I'm laughing I'm crying I'm a little turned on. This story has everything. Definitely a memorable experience! And hey, you did it!!

Thank you for being responsible. I wish more people were like you. Our communities are very small, so people browsing local can have an outsize effect.

I'm sure you'll have some fun soon enough. Now that you have furniture, it's a lot more fun to have guests over ;-) tl;dr: had great sex for the first time in a while, one as top, one as bottom. sorry this ended up being a really long post.

On my side, this week was more about quality vs. quantity. I had 2 flakes which was annoying, but what can you do, it happens.

• Friday evening I finally met up with a guy I had been chatting with for a few weeks. We had initially planned to get a drink together, but with all the rain in NYC he suggested we just meet at his place :-D we have similar ethnicity, background, and work, but he's slimmer, lighter, more delicate. We spent over an hour just chatting and relaxing together before things started to heat up and moved into the bedroom. I got to fuck him on his back with legs held up, my favorite position.

• Great verbals and moaning, which are a big turn on. Also maybe the hottest thing for me was we didn't trade any nsfw pics before meeting, so he got a nice big surprise when he took my clothes off. It felt more like the old school hookups you used to have, before the apps changed everything. When I was getting close a few times, he had to have me lighten my grip on his legs -- I was squeezing too tightly when I was getting excited. Once I was done, I helped him get off while he sniffed some poppers. We hung out for a while after that, and maybe I'll see him again. He's vers, but honestly I probably wouldn't bottom for him.

• Saturday I wanted to bottom, and had arranged to meet with a guy I'd chatted with a few weeks back, who had just come back to NYC from a trip. Masculine, strong, hairy, a lot like me. Also super friendly and HILARIOUS. He's almost 10 years older than me, but it didn't feel that way when we were together. We hung out, fucked, cuddled, laughed, and chatted for about 7 hours! 9am to 4pm.

• He topped me on my back mostly, which again is my preference. And he had this super sexy smile and wink as he worked his way in. I want to start doing something like that when I'm topping, I loved it. He's a little thicker and longer than me, with nice big natural balls, which is also exactly what I enjoy. We took some breaks, but overall his stamina was really impressive.

• The first time he fucked me, in the morning, was pleasurable as normal. However, the second time he did it later, something interesting happened. See, I normally don't get hard when I bottom, I've come to accept that. However, after hours of hanging out, getting relaxed, and feeling more connected, I got nice and hard the second time he slid inside me! We had a great second time together too that afternoon.

• Ended with him carrying me, and teaching me how to carry him too. That was really fun. Then we showered together, and I sent him on his way home. I had some pizza and ice cream once everything was done. We'll probably hang out more, maybe I can learn to get in touch with my bottom side better together with him.

The experiences this weekend left me with these incredible waves of good feelings running up and down my body. After a bunch of bad, mediocre, or flake experiences last week, this was the first good sex I've had in almost two weeks. I also think I really am more vers top than vers.

It's a good size, good proportions, and veiny. It's more than acceptable, it's hot!

Vers switch brothers unite? Getting fucked I swear I don't know how I make such pathetic sub whimpers.

Last time I took a dose that high (6g dried homegrown) I had to stay in bed and undergo complete ego death. I could barely look at a picture of a moose hanging in my cottage.

I'm amazed you could watch a movie! Not to mention such mind bending movies!