I put my sexual preferences in my dating profiles and I make sure I'm as direct as the setting allows. I can't understand people who are coy about their sexuality. Mismatching sexuality is absolutely a dealbreaker. I recently spent an entire day with a guy who suddenly decided he wasn't gay. Could have saved me the trouble.

I think it's good to get people's sexualities out in the open before the relationship even begins. Like, I'm a bottom and I simply don't fuck women (in a conventional sense). Gay guys are more understanding. It's kind of a big deal and I wouldn't want to lead with false assumptions.

That's a nice long story with lots of twists and turns. There were a couple of minor grammatical errors and the improper use of double quotes near the bullet points. I like the cute/naughty organization as it helps me find my place without overcomplicating things. It sounds very vanilla tbh, but I guess D is that kind of guy. To me, dad body jerk-off isn't exactly the sexiest thing, but I'm sure to some people it's really hot. (I didn't watch the bonus video but I'm sure people will appreciate it.)

Where indeed? I'm pansexual, currently leaning more gay, nb-presenting male with a thin frame. If I had no standards, I could probably find some bear in the area. Scruff is another gay app, and I managed to meet someone through that who looks like my type but isn't much of a top and didn't want to meet again. I'm also on a BDSM-focused gay site called Recon, where I've been engaged in a multi-month ongoing conversation with this shy pantyhose fetishist who eventually wants to try things. I avoid Grindr because I'm not looking for disposable experiences.

2 weeks ago I met a chastity bottom and stayed the night at his place. Ate his beautiful ass that tasted like strawberries. He's a gorgeous femboy type who takes good care of himself, and looks younger despite being my age. Too bad he ghosted me.

Now I'm in touch with a similar type of guy, potentially to meet in the next week or two. Frustrated that I can't make it an ongoing thing with my exact type. This new guy wants me to piss on him and calls me "master", so maybe he's kinky enough to not get scared off.

The usual community get-together shenanigans without any sexy times. BUT a guy I talked to on Scruff last week agreed to meet me this Friday. He's adorable in so many ways, and despite having that spark of youth he's exactly my age. I want to swallow him whole. He's a locked bottom and wants me to top aggressively. We're both at about the same level of kink I think. I feel something tremendous.

UwU that does sound very girly. Maybe I could top you 😽

I made a thread a couple weeks after dazedandconfused stopped posting, but nobody replied. I'll share my week.

Friday - went to a BDSM meeting. Met a woman 20 years older than me whose son shares my name. Could be a kinky time at some point in the future. Tuesday - went to an LGBTQ meeting and finally had an open conversation about actual sexual topics. This group took some warming up. Not sure if any boys want to date me, but we'll see.

Anal dilators are nice. My anus gets a little more forgiving each time. This somewhat sates my libido and serves the additional purpose of preparing me for a pounding I hope to receive some day soon.

You heard me. Masochist here

The "even though" assumes most readers identify as heterosexual. I think in the bdsm community we're mostly bi/pan. It sucks how many vanilla people are sexually repressed and don't know how to express their desire. I went through a phase when I called myself "straight" because I felt a shortage of female partners, but now I feel a shortage of male partners and I'd really like a dick in my ass again.

I went to a BDSM group at a bar for an hour on Friday evening (not quite a munch). Then I went home.